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Hello sorry to get into it but i want to know if normal!!!

I waited two weeks as doctor said... One week and 5 days lol...

(I am 3 weeks and 4 days in)

When i am having sex im ok but when i am going to finish wink wink i have pain on the side of my stomach and where they pulled my stomach from... And after everything is done im feeling a throbbing sensation this has happen twice and it has me a little nervous...

I have a doctors appt next week will bring it up but just wanted to know if this has happen to anyone...

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I'd mention it to the doc, but I wouldn't worry overly. A little healing adhesion or suture that's pulling when your muscles contract isn't a big deal. Should improve with time. But definitely mention to your doc in case there could be something more serious. I'd pretty sure this isn't any big deal.

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No pain at all.. unless you go Mr Gray all the way LoL.. I guess check with your Doctor to be on the safe side.. try not to do strenght or bend your abdominal area, otherwise you will feel pain. I was told not to lift anything heavier than 20 lbs or incline 90 degress until 2 months.. I guess all depend of your doc’s guidelines.. Good luck and hope is nothing major..

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19 minutes ago, Back2fit said:

unless you go Mr Gray all the way LoL..

oh goodness LOL.

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Muscle contracting ... happened to me, I had bypass and I was having this side pains under my boobs.. and while having sex everything was fine .. except I couldn’t be in my right side or flat I needed to lean a bit to the left. And afterwards I felt like that “weird pull” from my side stop me from enjoying my O.


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My problem is not during im ok doggie and cowgirl my problem is when im about to finish ... Wink wink .... The pressure builds up and my stomach hurts

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Muscle contracting ... happened to me, I had bypass and I was having this side pains under my boobs.. and while having sex everything was fine .. except I couldn’t be in my right side or flat I needed to lean a bit to the left. And afterwards I felt like that “weird pull” from my side stop me from enjoying my O.




Yes the same thing happen to me too i cant lay down only slow ride and doggie with pillows holding belly

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Lol he might be hitting it to hard have him take it easy lol have fun

juan phone

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I would agree. Take it easy.


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holy moly

do i feel old or what??

;):D

kathy

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