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I know I am crazy, got a appointment with the Psycholigist next week. But it is really doing my head in. When I weighed 30kg/60lbs more I was much happier with my naked body and sex life. I love sex as much as I love food, but my love affair with food had to change or it was going to kill me so I got the bipass in Feb 2017 at the time I weighed 160kg and am 174cm/5’8” I was confident with both my naked body and my own sexiness. In fact one of my fears with the surgery (which btw want fantastically and highly recommend Mr A Cheng of Mater Brisbane to anyone) was I would loose weight and wouldn’t be as sexy any more. Yes crazy. But it seems that is exactly what has happened. My sex drive has dried up both literally and figuratively which really sucks but not in a good way. I hate my body and my ***** and myself. I just tried to use my hatichi and even that was no help. Please help my very 1st world excessively indulgant problem, that is driving me insane.

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    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
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      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
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    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

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      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

    • Alisa_S

      Bought a treadmill and some 5 lb weights. Time to get off my butt and get moving!
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      1. DaisyChainOz

        That's a great choice! 😊

    • DaisyChainOz

      Surgery done!  Really looking forward to the next chapter 🥳😁
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      1. GreenTealael

        Congratulations!!🎉

      2. Bugzy46

        Congrats

      3. Alisa_S

        Fantastic! Best of luck to you & I hope you're healing nicely & not having much pain!🙏

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