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Hey Guys,

I currently going through a messy breakup, unfortunately I have no appetite what so ever! Everything is make me sick to my stomach, I can't manage to eat nothing! I know I must eat but I can't for the life of me, I could hardly drink water! I don't want to send myself to the hospital but his is uncontrollable! Please help!

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Breakups suck. Sorry you are struggling so much. Try to get in some relaxation - put on some spa music, and take a hot shower, extra b Vitamins always helped me, talking w a friend. Maybe set a timer and follow a regimented schedule.

No one else can take care of you but you. Hugs...

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Breakups suck. Sorry you are struggling so much. Try to get in some relaxation - put on some spa music, and take a hot shower, extra b Vitamins always helped me, talking w a friend. Maybe set a timer and follow a regimented schedule.
No one else can take care of you but you. Hugs...


Thanks so much! I just feel physically drained!

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For this one, I recommend going someplace outside of your normal routine. Maybe to the next town.. go to a mall or movie, where you can do something while carrying a bottle of Water or snack.

If you are too weak from not eating/drinking, then you need to suck it up and swallow something. Call your doc if it's past the point of no return. You can get an IV, and maybe something for your nerves.

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Hey Guys,
I currently going through a messy breakup, unfortunately I have no appetite what so ever! Everything is make me sick to my stomach, I can't manage to eat nothing! I know I must eat but I can't for the life of me, I could hardly drink water! I don't want to send myself to the hospital but his is uncontrollable! Please help!



Find a friend to come around that can help cheer you up and maybe eat with you. You need a support network.

Good luck and sorry for your situation. I know it's difficult right now. My thoughts are with you for continued success.

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For this one, I recommend going someplace outside of your normal routine. Maybe to the next town.. go to a mall or movie, where you can do something while carrying a bottle of Water or snack.< br> If you are too weak from not eating/drinking, then you need to suck it up and swallow something. Call your doc if it's past the point of no return. You can get an IV, and maybe something for your nerves.


I'm trying, and I just get a stomach. I guess my nerves have gotten the best of me.

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Find a friend to come around that can help cheer you up and maybe eat with you. You need a support network.

Good luck and sorry for your situation. I know it's difficult right now. My thoughts are with you for continued success.

Sent from my XT1635-01 using BariatricPal mobile app



Is such an overwhelming/embarrassing topic to touch with you family, and is that moment when you don't want to here the "I told you so" but then again is such a Shi*ty feeling! I guess the surgery hormones plus my emotional state of my marriage just has be all over the place! And this isn't the time! As is I've had a hard time eating now it much worst.

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That sucks. People who care would not say I told you so or be disparaging. They would just be there to offer comfort. I'm sorry you have to do this alone.

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