Always seeing myself the same fat girl

[lindabalseca 373]

Today is 10 weeks post op....I'm losing slowly and hitting lots of stalls....I know I'm having some progress because my clothes are looser...my coworkers say things complimentary but I feel it's obligatory or just to be nice...I'm down 65#

[Apple203 1,314]

65 pounds in 10 weeks is AWESOME! I'm sorry you can't see the difference, because I can! I hope that changes for you soon. Are you doing measurements regularly, too?

[lindabalseca 373]

Just now, Apple203 said:

65 pounds in 10 weeks is AWESOME! I'm sorry you can't see the difference, because I can! I hope that changes for you soon. Are you doing measurements regularly, too?

no unfortunately i didnt do measurements. i kick myself for not doing them

[Starsmore 60]

I can see a definite change!! It's not too late to start measurements

[Dolcy1182 10]

Today is 10 weeks post op....I'm losing slowly and hitting lots of stalls....I know I'm having some progress because my clothes are looser...my coworkers say things complimentary but I feel it's obligatory or just to be nice...I'm down 65#

R u kidding!! There is a big difference and 65 in ten weeks is am amazing rate .. keep it up u will definitely reach it

[ProudGrammy 8,322]

2 hours ago, Starsmore said:

It's not too late to start measurements

@lindabalseca

never too late for anything!!

(measurements)

take the tape by the horn, and

get started NOW!!

numbers on the scale might not

being going down, but by

measuring your tummy, hips, etc

you will see that you might have

lost inches.

65 lbs gone!! you are aces

good luck bud

you are doing great

kathy

congrats

[46w4kds 177]

I wished i could say i lost that much in 10 weeks...omg, i would be ecstatic!!


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[lindabalseca 373]

Just now, 46w4kds said:

I wished i could say i lost that much in 10 weeks...omg, i would be ecstatic!!


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i know it seems like a lot but it seems like the consensus on the forum is that if you start at a higher weight like myelf over 400# that i should be dropping much faster. im sure if i picked up my exercising that i could be a little more but to be honest I have no energy and i am exhausted all the time.

[Apple1 2,572]

1 hour ago, lindabalseca said:

i know it seems like a lot but it seems like the consensus on the forum is that if you start at a higher weight like myelf over 400# that i should be dropping much faster. im sure if i picked up my exercising that i could be a little more but to be honest I have no energy and i am exhausted all the time.

No, it is a lot. You have lost an average of 6.5 lbs per week and 26 per month!! I'm not sure how much faster you think you should be losing, but I really think you are doing incredible. I see a big difference in your photos.

I don't think I have read anything where anyone says you should be losing X amount each week. I think what has been said is the averages lost are usually higher for those that start at a higher BMI. In my opinion you have exceeded the averges. Be proud and happy for your accomplishment and keep it up!!!

How do you know your co-workers aren't genuinely happy for you? Maybe they are. I think you need to start believing in yourself and know that you are worthy. Even if you never lose another pound you are a beautiful person. Believe it!!

[eden30 111]

Massive difference!!! You are doing good!!!!!!

[lindabalseca 373]

thank you. i really do appreciate your encouragement. im always afraid of failure. ive never completed anything in my whole 50 years on earth lol i just want once to do so

[JeffN 106]

I think we focus way to much on our outwardly appearance. For me it was a self fulfilling curse. I am trying to focus on my inner well-being and that seems to work.

[Angie's_Ocean 213]

You can see an AMAZING difference! Have you tried your pre-op clothes on? Don't tell me they're not looser?
You are doing great!
#believeinyourself!

[angyplus5 470]

you look great!!!!! 65 lbs is amazing, you should be proud!

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[Sherry Rice 184]

Today is 10 weeks post op....I'm losing slowly and hitting lots of stalls....I know I'm having some progress because my clothes are looser...my coworkers say things complimentary but I feel it's obligatory or just to be nice...I'm down 65#

If I may, you look FANTASTIC and a 65lb. loss is HUGE. Please listen to someone who is honest and certainly is not obligated! Keep up the great job!