Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

How do you tell your new job that you have to take off



Recommended Posts

How do you tell your new job that you have to take time off. I just started a new job and in the training phase. How do I tell them I need a week off for surgery?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I waited too start till after I was fully recovered. Most employer's aren't gonna be happy that u didn't disclose how far along in the process u were when u interviewed for the job cause most HR departments know the process. Good luck tho

Sent from my SM-G935T using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tell them sooner than later.

Best case scenario would be to have told them from the getgo.

Next best is to just be honest and sincere while maintaining your desired level of privacy

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

How do you tell your new job that you have to take time off. I just started a new job and in the training phase. How do I tell them I need a week off for surgery?

Before my partime job hired me I told them up front that I was going to be out on medical leave from 10/19-11/20 And they still hired me

Sent from my SM-G935V using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have not been approved yet still waiting on insurance so do I still tell them even tho I don't know if I would be approved or not?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

1 minute ago, CrissCriss said:

I have not been approved yet still waiting on insurance so do I still tell them even tho I don't know if I would be approved or not?

Do you have a date?

I think honesty is the best medicine. If you have to say I'm having surgery on xyz, and they're still working out insurance issues

That way if something changes you mentioned all this before

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

When you have a date, tell them. Not before. You only have to tell them that you have to have surgery and will be out from day x to day Y. You have no obligation to tell them what the surgery is. I didn't tell my office til I knew my surgery date. Because before then - it was hoped -- it wasn't planned.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

13 minutes ago, Diana_in_Philly said:

When you have a date, tell them. Not before. You only have to tell them that you have to have surgery and will be out from day x to day Y. You have no obligation to tell them what the surgery is. I didn't tell my office til I knew my surgery date. Because before then - it was hoped -- it wasn't planned.

Nothing wrong with a round about, so they aren't shocked. Even if it's something vague like in December or January I'll be out for a week.

It makes absolutely no difference to them and their ability to plan around you, but they'll feel better and be less outraged when you have an actual date.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you everybody for your advice I will wait until I have an actual date before I say anything.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just a warning - some companies have 90 day cannot miss work rule, better read the handbook cover to cover.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

1 hour ago, BeTrue83 said:

Does your job offer FMLA?

They do but I am just in the training phase so I am sure it won't apply to me.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×