Surgery didn’t work?

[Abeille213 59]

I'm sorry my long-winded post drove everyone off the deep end [emoji20] I thought I made a good argument....
* Thinks to self: "Maybe everyone is just exercising too much"... [emoji6]

Nah your post did nothing of the sort. You made good points. People who flip out this way are walking around on edge and totally unstable to start with. Hopefully anyone in need of psychiatric intervention will seek out assistance.

[Apple203 1,314]

Psychology and journalism -- two degrees that people got when they weren't that smart at my university. Oh, and political science, lest forget.

[Abeille213 59]

You're a liar and a troll.

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Really? Then where did this diplomas and licenses on my wall come from?

[Abeille213 59]

Psychology and journalism -- two degrees that people got when they weren't that smart at my university. Oh, and political science, lest forget.

Well, I have 3 degrees and am the youngest person in the university to ever finish a doctorate. I’m not overly concerned about how intelligent you may or may not believe me to be. What are your credentials, exactly? Non-existent, I would wager

[Apple203 1,314]

That is one weird office/

[Apple203 1,314]

1 minute ago, Abeille213 said:

Well, I have 3 degrees and am the youngest person in the university to ever finish a doctorate. I’m not overly concerned about how intelligent you may or may not believe me to be. What are your credentials, exactly? Non-existent, I would wager

You are tragically insecure. I feel sorry for you, oddly.

[Abeille213 59]

That is one weird office/

Hahaha ummm okay? You’re resorting to this? Making fun of an office that you literally cannot see? My my, the lack of originality is staggering. And humorous.

[Abeille213 59]

You are tragically insecure. I feel sorry for you, oddly.

Quite the opposite, actually. I’m rather egotistical. But it’s cute that you’re playing armchair psychologist.

[Cateyez001 28]

U sound like me![emoji24] I had bypass on 9/13 and I've only lost 13lbs. What's supposed to be inspiring seeing all these posts about people dropping vast amounts of weight in a short timeframe is actually discouraging to those of us who aren't in that lucky bunch. I've been told, tho, that those lucky 'losers' may have a lot more weight to lose than us, or are starting at a higher weight than us, or perhaps they are exaggerating a bit. Who knows? Mainly, everyone's been telling me that comparing to others is unproductive, everyone's journey is different. I know....I just can't help seeing all those types of threads on here and feel defeated!!

I sent my whole food log to my NUT just yesterday, in fact, to see what she could tell me since I'm so frustrated with my slow weight loss. Turns out, there ARE a few things I need to address. So I agree with previous poster that u should also do this. What we think we're doing 100% right and accordding to plan may not be as close as we thought. For example, I was eating between 700-900 cals a day and getting a MINIMUM of 70g of Protein a day, often 90-120g. Turns out, my docs plan wants me at NO MORE THAN 600 cals a day, 80g max protein a day. And here i thought i was following the plan by the book! [emoji52]

I sympathize with u a million times over and wish u luck as the days, weeks, months continue on. I hope ur weight starts to pour off and u get to post the exciting news!! Take care!

Hello,
I had my bypass 9/18 only loss 11 lbs. Have you seen as difference since you change your calories intake?

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[Apple203 1,314]

I feel oddly dirty for engaging in this thread... devolvement. I will bow out now, with the hope that the OP doesn't bail on the forum because of the bad behavior and thread hijacking.

[Abeille213 59]

I feel oddly dirty for engaging in this thread... devolvement. I will bow out now, with the hope that the OP doesn't bail on the forum because of the bad behavior and thread hijacking.

She already bowed out on herself when she gave up on herself. She further bowed when she, as a WLS patient, thought she would attempt to fat shame. Her presence here won’t matter. She will fail at this journey, there is no doubt.

[Apple203 1,314]

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48 minutes ago, Abeille213 said:

Evidently you can’t. Lol

But, yes, I absolutely can. However, I don’t want to drive the nutcase to suicide. Her instability is readily apparent.

If you are a psychologist, what you're doing here is unethical and actionable. You're making evaluative statements under the umbrella of your professional expertise that are damning, based on information posted on an anonymous peer support forum, where you have not formed a client/professional relationship. Please discontinue, or I will push for you to be banned from the forum (and I encourage you to seek peer supervision on your conduct).

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36 minutes ago, Abeille213 said:

Really? Then where did this diplomas and licenses on my wall come from?

If I could read your name and the state in which you're licensed, I'd be on the phone with the licensing board first thing tomorrow morning. Please discontinue your unethical behavior. If you don't understand that what you're doing is unethical, please seek consultation.

[Abeille213 59]

If you are a psychologist, what you're doing here is unethical and actionable. You're making evaluative statements under the umbrella of your professional expertise that are damning, based on information posted on an anonymous peer support forum, where you have not formed a client/professional relationship. Please discontinue, or I will push for you to be banned from the forum (and I encourage you to seek peer supervision on your conduct).

Lol you’ll push for me to be banned? Have at it. I’m sure the admins put a lot of thought into your opinion.
Actionable and unethical? Wrong again. But good effort, love bug.