Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Surgery didn’t work?



Recommended Posts

I wouldn’t come to you EVEN IF I NEEDED help. You seem like a horrible person. Besides that I already had my psych evaluation and was cleared for surgery. If you had any sense you’d know that after a major surgery it’s okay to be fearful of if I’m doing the right thing or not. So why don’t you bounce off my post and worry about fixing yourself. Obviously as a doctor that didn’t prevent you from tipping the scale at 400 pounds. So why should I listen to anything you have to say, you couldn’t even listen to yourself.


Lol this is fabulous! I love that it’s this easy to get you worked up enough. And fat shaming? Really? Give me a break. There is absolutely nothing you can say to upset me. I’m secure enough in myself that I don’t flip out due to a comment on the Internet. Sadly, you cannot say the same thing. No wonder you’re failing at this process, not losing properly and eating potato chips. You’re incredibly unstable and in desperate and immediate need of serious, intensive, inpatient treatment. You will fail in this journey, my dear. I give it 6 months, at the absolute most. You’ll gain every pound back and then some. Very sad. Feel free to flip out again and attempt to insult me. I find it wonderfully hilarious.

Also, I’m 6 feet tall and was 402 at my highest weight. I lost over 100 lbs prior to surgery. Since my surgery 3 months ago, I’ve lost an additional 97 pounds. So, which of us is failing here, darlin’? I’m 23 pounds away from my goal weight. How about you? [emoji57]

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

STOP POSTING ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY.
Thank you to those you kindly approached me with solutions and your wisdom. I appreciate the help.
If anyone knows how to delete this post, please reply to this. Thank you

Nobody has to stop posting. You chose to make a public post. People will respond. Don’t let it drive you back to the potato chips again.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

2 hours ago, Amburmist said:

Curious, are u a physician? What kind?

Newby error allowing the resident troll to, well, troll, and brag on her "qualifications".. Just ignore her. :-)

Edited by Apple203

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

3 minutes ago, Abeille213 said:


Nobody has to stop posting. You chose to make a public post. People will respond. Don’t let it drive you back to the potato chips again.

Seriously? You can do better.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Newby error allowing the resident troll to, well, troll, and brag on her "qualifications".. Just ignore her. :-)

My “qualifications” are quite legitimate. Feel free to stop by my office anytime.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

1 minute ago, Abeille213 said:


My “qualifications” are quite legitimate. Feel free to stop by my office anytime.

LOL, try harder.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Seriously? You can do better.

Evidently you can’t. Lol

But, yes, I absolutely can. However, I don’t want to drive the nutcase to suicide. Her instability is readily apparent.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

LOL, try harder.


Um why? Are you really this upset because you were corrected over your insistence that exercise doesn’t aid in weight loss? Lol Geez. Don’t be lazy. Just exercise. I’m really weirded out that you’re following me around. Creepy.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

1 hour ago, stroral said:

Can I block users? I'm sickened by the abusive behavior of two commenters in particular. I'm new and I won't be sticking around if posts like the ones by Abielle and Johnny Cakes are tolerated. It's very poor forum management to allow people like this to prey on new users. They're essentially trolls.

You can :-) Click on you name in the top right corner, its in the settings,

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm sorry my long-winded post drove everyone off the deep end :( I thought I made a good argument....

* Thinks to self: "Maybe everyone is just exercising too much"... ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This thread is a mess! This so called psychology expert has a lot of balls speaking to anyone this way. Shame on you. How dare you come out here and talk down to others when you yourself couldn't keep from your own bag of chips and had to undergo surgery. You sicken me and are a disgrace to your profession. I rarely participate in here and I'm the kindest person you'd ever wanna meet however your behavior doesn't merit kindness. I truly hope you regain every effing ounce you lost plus another 50 lbs you cow[emoji202]
Your surgery may have been a success too bad you're rotten from the inside and ya can't fix that b*tch!

Sent from my LGMS330 using BariatricPal mobile app



Hahaha “the kindest person you’d ever meet”?? Really? I wonder if the admin will agree with that when I send him this post. Keep fooling yourself that you’re a nice person. That’s actually funny. This is excellent. I am loving it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites


Hahaha “the kindest person you’d ever meet”?? Really? I wonder if the admin will agree with that when I send him this post. Keep fooling yourself that you’re a nice person. That’s actually funny. This is excellent. I am loving it.

Also, I’m not a cow at all. I look and feel fantastic. 23 lbs to go until goal weight. Wearing a size 6. I’m doing great. So, nah, not a cow. But feel free to insult me again. I love getting this kind of reaction from whackos.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You can :-) Click on you name in the top right corner, its in the settings,

See ya!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

8 minutes ago, Abeille213 said:


Um why? Are you really this upset because you were corrected over your insistence that exercise doesn’t aid in weight loss? Lol Geez. Don’t be lazy. Just exercise. I’m really weirded out that you’re following me around. Creepy.

Hmmm.... am I upset? I don't feel upset... I did really dig Berry's post to the thread.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×