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Finally been on this journey since Jan.2017 . tried 4 years ago while married then back out. Because I felt that my then husband was so enthusiastic about the surgery and would make remarks about my appearence it was stupid I know. But I backed away. Then tried again and felt that i was going for this for the wrong reason to get back my exhusband. Now after 4 years I have a surgery date Oct. 10th. Thanks to depression and anxiety attacks i have gained alot of weight. I have never been skinny or fit but i am just too heavy I have pain on my back my knees I am tired all the time. Just feel tired and my weight doesnt help.

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Hi I’m October 10th also how are you feeling

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Finally been on this journey since Jan.2017 . tried 4 years ago while married then back out. Because I felt that my then husband was so enthusiastic about the surgery and would make remarks about my appearence it was stupid I know. But I backed away. Then tried again and felt that i was going for this for the wrong reason to get back my exhusband. Now after 4 years I have a surgery date Oct. 10th. Thanks to depression and anxiety attacks i have gained alot of weight. I have never been skinny or fit but i am just too heavy I have pain on my back my knees I am tired all the time. Just feel tired and my weight doesnt help.
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I had my surgery on the 3 rd I have bad knees as well and my back hurts so much I cannot stand longer than 5 minutes and I am in tears. I hoping that I will lose enough weight so that I can get moving.as soon as I can get in the Water I will go to the community center and take some water exercise classes. But for now if I'm sitting I'm moving my legs or arms just to be moving in some way.


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HI Guys,I had my sleeve on October 12th, Lost 30 pounds weeks post op, gained 4 pounds on my 3rd week. Since then stalling...., at times I wonder if my scale is not working any more. But it is a new scale. I am seeing my Dr in two for 5 weeks psot op visit , he gave me a goal of 275 but i am still 280. I am really worried. I have not cheated I am really following the diet. at times i even feel that i don't eat enough. I can hardly take in 500 calories a day . Any tips.

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