dreamingsmall 1,125 Posted September 10, 2017 On 07/09/2017 at 8:36 PM, Walter.Sobchak said: I am only a week out and my wife is pressuring me for it. I really do not have the desire or the energy right now. However, I know she needs the intimacy and closeness. I don't want to rupture my suture line and croak mid sex. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app Time to get creative with intimacy , everyone heals at their own rate so do lots of romantic stuff with each other, and the time will fly and you will be fit in no time Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Walter.Sobchak 978 Posted September 10, 2017 We made time for it last night.I was able to perform as the champ that I normally am.My wife is very happy today. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app 2 Kathytej and teedsg reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teedsg 253 Posted September 10, 2017 I don't want to think about sex right now. Maybe after 10 days or so. Getting in and out of bed is hard enough. Can't think of being intimate right now. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G900A using BariatricPal mobile app 2 sleevedshereen and Kathytej reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Allie589 171 Posted September 10, 2017 I waited a good 3 weeks post surgery. In addition to being so sore, I just didn't feel sexy with my lovely ketosis breath. I'll be 5 weeks out tomorrow and am now all good. Much happier husband!!!5'7 Sleeved 8/7 HW: 256 SW: 248 CW: 235 At 2 week post op GW: 150 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sleevedshereen 524 Posted September 11, 2017 @Walter.Sobchak LOL happy wife, happy life! Good to hear you didn't die! LOL JK 1 Walter.Sobchak reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KristyAB 48 Posted September 11, 2017 I'm 3 weeks out and still pretty sore So, sex isn't even on my radar right now. My hubby is 16 years older than me so it hasn't been an issue yet. *sigh* (I didn't think about me being in my sexual prime(30's for women) and him almost being 50 when we said "I do"......) 1 BT816 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Walter.Sobchak 978 Posted September 11, 2017 [mention=310857]Walter.Sobchak[/mention] LOL happy wife, happy life! Good to hear you didn't die! LOL JKMe too. It was actually no big deal, didn't really hurt my abs at all. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Walter.Sobchak 978 Posted September 11, 2017 I'm 3 weeks out and still pretty sore So, sex isn't even on my radar right now. My hubby is 16 years older than me so it hasn't been an issue yet. *sigh* (I didn't think about me being in my sexual prime(30's for women) and him almost being 50 when we said "I do"......) Ha ha ha.Poor old dude.I can relate, I used up all my sex drive in my early twenties.I could perform at the drop of a hat.Now I need a blue pill, sad times. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dabearo 118 Posted September 12, 2017 Ahhh, I was supposed to Wait!? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lele6173 5 Posted September 12, 2017 I waited until 3 weeks out. I just told him to take it easy like I was a virgin on prom night. All went well! 2 sleevedshereen and krandall reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BT816 82 Posted September 12, 2017 19 hours ago, Walter.Sobchak said: Now I need a blue pill, sad times. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app That could get better! Pre-op, with my diabetes not in check, I probably should have been using a pill. Now 90 lbs. later, happy to say everything is fully-functioning and in better shape than it's been in a long time! Great name, BTW. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Walter.Sobchak 978 Posted September 12, 2017 That could get better! Pre-op, with my diabetes not in check, I probably should have been using a pill. Now 90 lbs. later, happy to say everything is fully-functioning and in better shape than it's been in a long time! Great name, BTW. [emoji4]Glad to hear it.I am hoping with weight loss I can stop using the blue pill.Walter Sobchak is easily John Goodman's best role. Sent from my SM-G900V using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites