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As my surgery date approaches it just seems like everything else is going horrible things with my husband are the worst I almost binge ate to just feel comfort as this amazing journey life changing experience comes on the rest of my life that Was great is now crumbling just had to call the cops on my husband things have gotten this bad this is so sad beyond words when my mind should be clear preparing for surgery next month instead it's full of nonsense and drama that's literally tearing me down almost causing me to not meet my goals idk what to do

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Sounds awful.. I hope you have some good support--not just for the surgery but for all you're dealing with. Do you like your doctors? Would it help to let them know you're having a rough time? I will keep you in my prayers.

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I hope you have a support system to help you cope. Seek out a support group in your area, my surgeon hosts one so start there with yours. He also talks about those kinds of issues. Do not let that discourage you it is time for you to have a new life starting with you!

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Sounds awful.. I hope you have some good support--not just for the surgery but for all you're dealing with. Do you like your doctors? Would it help to let them know you're having a rough time? I will keep you in my prayers.

I do like my doctor yes and I have support from my best friend who did the surgery 5 years ago but other then that no


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I hope you have a support system to help you cope. Seek out a support group in your area, my surgeon hosts one so start there with yours. He also talks about those kinds of issues. Do not let that discourage you it is time for you to have a new life starting with you!

Really trying to not be discouraged but it's just so much I will keep strong though thank you


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I feel like I have a lot of stress going on in my life right now too. I just keep telling my self that after surgery I have six weeks to focus on me. This is a good motivator for me to keep pushing through the rough Patches.

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I feel like I have a lot of stress going on in my life right now too. I just keep telling my self that after surgery I have six weeks to focus on me. This is a good motivator for me to keep pushing through the rough Patches.

That is a good way to look at it I'll focus on that same thing hopefully to get through


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