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I would imagine that all of us that decided on surgery have a day that makes us doubt our choice. Today was mine. I am almost 3 weeks post op. For some reason today I hated everything. Hated Soup, Protein Shakes, feeling tired, gas pains, bathroom issues and not being able to have a beer. I thought is it really worth it?? My best friend had the sleeve 3 years ago and I know she is grateful for it. But as of this moment I am having a hard time thinking about the future. I just want to feel better. I want to chew something! For some reason my surgeon doesn't have Jello on his phase 2 approved list. I just had to vent. Thank you for listening. I need to lose 50 pounds and improve my health. I know that this was a good choice. I just don't feel it today.

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Sounds about right. I certainly felt the same way about 3 weeks out. Just keep in mind it does get better.

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Yup. I had a day like that around the three week mark too. It gets so much better when you move to soft foods.
You'll feel better. But I know NOW would be good. Some days just suck but the better days are definitely coming!

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Thank you guys so much. I am glad it's not uncommon around the 3 week mark. I know better days are ahead they just seem a long way. Thanks!


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Thank you guys so much. I am glad it's not uncommon around the 3 week mark. I know better days are ahead they just seem a long way. Thanks!




I hope you feel better soon. It's no fun feeling that way.

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