Paralyzed with Fear

[COTutu 3]

Upcoming RNY

[COTutu 3]

Having my RNY June 19th. Can't even shower I am so afraid.

[Tarver11 21]

Deep breathing and positive visualization, try and focus on all the reasons why your doing this.

[ladypoohbear 123]

instead of being scared, think of all the happy stuff like all the cute little clothes, the energy you will have, take less medications, love mirrors again, and my favorite.... Clothes shopping. Relax and enjoy your journey.

[kmalmonte 6]

I'm going in June 19...yikes... only 2 days away!!! I'm excited about having my life back but scared also. Positive thoughts only from this moment on!

[COTutu 3]

I think it is the complication risk that scares me. I had another (not related) simple procedure years ago that left me with irreversible nerve damage. It was one of the risks that was listed among the 1001 others. You always think "oh, that won't happen" but it did to me. 12 years of chronic pain later, I really read the possibilities.

[Darla J 7]

9 Days from surgery went to do my Pre Registration and the insurance didn't have the surgery code Fingers crossed and lots of prayers that it is straighten out by Monday afternoon. So close now don't want to have them postpone on me now. Kmalmonte Lots of Prayers

[TippyToesX 30]

I think it is the complication risk that scares me. I had another (not related) simple procedure years ago that left me with irreversible nerve damage. It was one of the risks that was listed among the 1001 others. You always think "oh, that won't happen" but it did to me. 12 years of chronic pain later, I really read the possibilities.

I'm so sorry you went thru that

As you're well aware, there are risks with every procedure. But try to focus on the rewards you'll get from this one!!

Good luck! I hope you have a smooth and speedy recovery! ️

[BgR72 113]

I think it is the complication risk that scares me. I had another (not related) simple procedure years ago that left me with irreversible nerve damage. It was one of the risks that was listed among the 1001 others. You always think "oh, that won't happen" but it did to me. 12 years of chronic pain later, I really read the possibilities.

I can understand your feelings. I am scheduled for surgery July 17 and I am anxious & happy. But my happiness is outweighing me being anxious. Kind of weird to have them at the same time. I had two surgeries on my feet in the past and risks were discussed & I understood them. Unfortunately, surgery wasnt successful so I will have to have another surgery next year. I have chronic pain too. I can accept that because I understood the risk & possible outcome. So, with the gastric bypass surgery I have a good understanding of the risks and to always check in with my doctor if I encounter any problems and or if something is not right. My surgeon Dr Joyce is such a great surgeon. I trust him. It really helps when you and your surgeon can bond. You trust him and he trusts you to call him when there is a problem. This is a big decision and it will get us on a healthier pathway. Choosing to be healthy is always a good thing. The thoughts I have about being healthy outweighs the risks or complications that may happen. God is good God give us strength

[COTutu 3]

I think it is the complication risk that scares me. I had another (not related) simple procedure years ago that left me with irreversible nerve damage. It was one of the risks that was listed among the 1001 others. You always think "oh, that won't happen" but it did to me. 12 years of chronic pain later, I really read the possibilities.

12 hours ago, BgR72 said:

I can understand your feelings. I am scheduled for surgery July 17 and I am anxious & happy. But my happiness is outweighing me being anxious. Kind of weird to have them at the same time. I had two surgeries on my feet in the past and risks were discussed & I understood them. Unfortunately, surgery wasnt successful so I will have to have another surgery next year. I have chronic pain too. I can accept that because I understood the risk & possible outcome. So, with the gastric bypass surgery I have a good understanding of the risks and to always check in with my doctor if I encounter any problems and or if something is not right. My surgeon Dr Joyce is such a great surgeon. I trust him. It really helps when you and your surgeon can bond. You trust him and he trusts you to call him when there is a problem. This is a big decision and it will get us on a healthier pathway. Choosing to be healthy is always a good thing. The thoughts I have about being healthy outweighs the risks or complications that may happen. God is good God give us strength

Thank you so much for your reply. It really helped. God bless you and your upcoming life change. Am trying to get thru the clear liquid diet now and think that my hunger is overshadowing my fear! 21 hours to go 😀

[BgR72 113]

I think it is the complication risk that scares me. I had another (not related) simple procedure years ago that left me with irreversible nerve damage. It was one of the risks that was listed among the 1001 others. You always think "oh, that won't happen" but it did to me. 12 years of chronic pain later, I really read the possibilities.
Thank you so much for your reply. It really helped. God bless you and your upcoming life change. Am trying to get thru the clear liquid diet now and think that my hunger is overshadowing my fear! 21 hours to go [emoji3]

God bless you! You keep giving us updates. We are all here to help you. You got this. Lord, I come to you in Jesus name and I ask that you give strength to my new friend before during and after surgery. Protect her& guide her surgeon. In Jesus name amen.

[patroche 8]

I'm going in June 19...yikes... only 2 days away!!! I'm excited about having my life back but scared also. Positive thoughts only from this moment on!

I am also going in tomorrow. Good luck and keep in touch.

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[COTutu 3]

2 hours ago, patroche said:

I am also going in tomorrow. Good luck and keep in touch.

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WOW! Three of us! Good luck to all of us..lets keep in touch and God bless!

[COTutu 3]

4 hours ago, BgR72 said:

God bless you! You keep giving us updates. We are all here to help you. You got this. Lord, I come to you in Jesus name and I ask that you give strength to my new friend before during and after surgery. Protect her& guide her surgeon. In Jesus name amen.

You are such an angel. Will be there for you when it's your turn. In the meantime, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[BgR72 113]

You are such an angel. Will be there for you when it's your turn. In the meantime, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Thank you dear
Get some sound sleep tonight. Keep us posted

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