Vsg & domestic abuse

[Navigating the Wilderness 824]

4 minutes ago, Catherine S said:

I am 13 days post-op thought my husband would be supportive. He has never been. I woke up 6hrs post my surgery and my husband was out drinking. On day number 3 in the hospital he was totally drunk.

Please tell your husband that real men think he is a punk b***h for treating you that way. Stress that. Punk. b***h.

[kasemcd 34]

I don't even know where to start. My body hurts so bad right now. I was grabbed by the back of my neck and thrown on bed & my arm is badly bruised. I'm filing for divorce after nearly 10 years together since age 17. He looked at me and told me "you don't look all that good anymore". I'm just done. Part of my mental issues have been this dying relationship, I needed to let I go.

http://www.thehotline.org
This website has a call hotline, or an online chat with a professional that may be able to help ease your mind. What he did to you is not acceptable in any way and good for you for putting a stop to it. What he said to you is *excuse my language* bullshit. No one who supposedly loves you should ever, ever say that to you. You are strong, you are beautiful, and you are welcomed here and also welcomed to me as I once went through domestic violence.