susieslimlips 5 Posted September 23, 2017 Wow ! You are an inspiration to me . I am 6 days post sleeve and having ups and downs days . You look awesome ! I am so glad that you chose to share your feelings and photos with the group xx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BooBee66 104 Posted September 23, 2017 InspirationalSent from my LG-K373 using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BooBee66 104 Posted September 23, 2017 That stomach show me hope[emoji7]Sent from my LG-K373 using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deegil 42 Posted September 23, 2017 On 5/30/2017 at 3:06 PM, haylee_d said: I'm bearing my soul and body here. I couldn't be more proud of how my body has changed. I've lost exactly 70 pounds since my surgery. Today marks exactly 24 weeks ( 6 months ) since my VSG surgery. There's good, bad and ugly about VSG. A lot of days, I cried and wondered why in the hell I had this surgery, and what in the hell ive done to myself. Throughout this process, I haven't been able to REALLY see the changes. In my mind, I always see a 268 pound fat girl. Granted, I have seen the changes, seen the smaller clothes sizes, but still struggled with my self image in my head. But today that all changed.... I realized today as I was getting dressed that I had on the same exact underwear as the day I took my pre-surgery pictures. Then I realized that today marked 6 months since surgery. So, i decided to take pictures. I haven't taken pictures in this process because of the absolute shame and disgust I feel towards myself. Shame and disgust are understatement words for how I feel about myself. Until today... Today, I feel proud. For the first time, I can honestly say that I don't see "that fat girl" in the mirror anymore. It may not be pretty, it will never be perfect, but it's mine, and today I'm owning it, and FINALLY for once in my LIFE, I'm feeling proud. It's NOT an easy decision to post these photos of me in my underwear. I feel absolutely vulnerable and exposed. Please be kind. It took all the courage I could muster to do this. The current pictures are not the best quality but the best I could take of myself at the moment. All you new VSG-ers, stay the course and have faith. If you have body image issues as I do, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you are not alone in the dark! Much love from me to you all! ️️️ DOS: 12/13/16 HW: 268 SW: 256.6 CW: 186.4 You look great! Congratulations and continue to love yourself! You are worth it! 3 fontainerm, bb111 and Jesusmyhelp reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mpolyard 10 Posted September 24, 2017 You look amazing!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canchav82 1 Posted September 25, 2017 You are an inspiration!!!Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brooklyn115 1 Posted September 25, 2017 Amazing Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LillieDuFran 127 Posted September 25, 2017 Haylee_d Well done! I hear you about self shaming. I'm so tickled to hear that this gave you a tool to start loving yourself. You are a hero indeed! Sent from my XT1575 using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
starfishwish 129 Posted September 26, 2017 Fantastic! Keep up the great work!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macy Gray 50 Posted September 26, 2017 You are an inspiration! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pam_2-06-2017 375 Posted September 28, 2017 Ok, you look amazing!!! Your skin looks amazing!!! Your bum looks amazing!!! You have every reason to be proud. Congratulations!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teedsg 253 Posted September 28, 2017 I'm bearing my soul and body here. I couldn't be more proud of how my body has changed. I've lost exactly 70 pounds since my surgery. Today marks exactly 24 weeks ( 6 months ) since my VSG surgery. There's good, bad and ugly about VSG. A lot of days, I cried and wondered why in the hell I had this surgery, and what in the hell ive done to myself. Throughout this process, I haven't been able to REALLY see the changes. In my mind, I always see a 268 pound fat girl. Granted, I have seen the changes, seen the smaller clothes sizes, but still struggled with my self image in my head. But today that all changed....I realized today as I was getting dressed that I had on the same exact underwear as the day I took my pre-surgery pictures. Then I realized that today marked 6 months since surgery. So, i decided to take pictures.I haven't taken pictures in this process because of the absolute shame and disgust I feel towards myself. Shame and disgust are understatement words for how I feel about myself. Until today...Today, I feel proud. For the first time, I can honestly say that I don't see "that fat girl" in the mirror anymore. It may not be pretty, it will never be perfect, but it's mine, and today I'm owning it, and FINALLY for once in my LIFE, I'm feeling proud. It's NOT an easy decision to post these photos of me in my underwear. I feel absolutely vulnerable and exposed. Please be kind. It took all the courage I could muster to do this. The current pictures are not the best quality but the best I could take of myself at the moment. All you new VSG-ers, stay the course and have faith. If you have body image issues as I do, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you are not alone in the dark!Much love from me to you all! [emoji173]️[emoji173]️[emoji173]️ DOS: 12/13/16HW: 268SW: 256.6CW: 186.4Such a beautiful post. So honest, so brave. I have tears reading yourvpost, because I felt the emotions. I don't even see your scars. You look amazing! Be very proud and Celebrate your beautiful self! Thank you for being you.[emoji2] Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G900A using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
About time for me 33 Posted October 3, 2017 You look amazing, I, like you, don't see a change in myself. I see the fatty. Doesn't matter that clothing size has changed, I'm fat, I'm the fat sister, daughter, wife, mom.Sent from my Pixel XL using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mytimenow17 99 Posted October 3, 2017 Girl, you look absolutely amazing!!! You are so beautiful inside and out!! I feel your emotions too!! I totally know where you are coming from! It is so hard, and I am so proud of you! You've given me hope by posting your pictures, that I too can be to where you are. Thank you! Keep up the amazing work!! Hugs! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pamh71 2 Posted October 3, 2017 Omg what an inspiration! Thank you for posting!! Your body type is like mine so I needed a good visual to see my goals. You look great! Very good job losing so much!!! Keep up the good work! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites