minnieme80 11 Posted May 10, 2017 I'm scheduled for VSG on May 24th. I have childcare sorted for my 7 year old daughter now which is a huge relief..BUT I am going to be completely on my own and I'm so scared 3 bilbisgfy, Deactivatedfatgal and Simply_Divine reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minnieme80 11 Posted May 10, 2017 I'm scheduled for VSG on May 24th. I have childcare sorted for my 7 year old daughter now which is a huge relief..BUT I am going to be completely on my own and I'm so scaredI meant sleevers but the app won't let me change the title Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Navigating the Wilderness 824 Posted May 11, 2017 21 hours ago, minnieme80 said: I meant sleevers but the app won't let me change the title Hahaha, was wondering about that. In my head was thinking there are a few single mums I'd like to 'sleep' with. Seriously though, do you have any close friends that can be around for you after surgery, even if it is for the first couple days? I know there are people on here who have done fine by themselves. 1 Redmaxx reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bilbisgfy 36 Posted May 11, 2017 I am having mine done on May 25th, same day as my sister!So we are going alone. Not worried, as you can ask for help, if needed.Sent from my SM-G935T using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Deactivatedfatgal reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bilbisgfy 36 Posted May 11, 2017 & good luck!Sent from my SM-G935T using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweet as peaches 759 Posted May 11, 2017 (edited) 23 hours ago, minnieme80 said: I'm scheduled for VSG on May 24th. I have childcare sorted for my 7 year old daughter now which is a huge relief..BUT I am going to be completely on my own and I'm so scared @minnieme80 you will be fine don't worry if you can tackle motherhood this should be a breeze. Im so proud of you and all mother who doing for themselves and our children. Being a single mother, you do worry about all things rest when necessary and pray for all your worries to be gone and definitely be strong. This forum is therapeutic look at the post whenever you feel lost. I also read the surgery information they give it helps a whole lot. God bless and your baby will be so proud of you for making this journey. Edited May 11, 2017 by Sweet as peaches Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minnieme80 11 Posted May 12, 2017 [mention=318682]minnieme80[/mention] you will be fine don't worry if you can tackle motherhood this should be a breeze. Im so proud of you and all mother who doing for themselves and our children. Being a single mother, you do worry about all things rest when necessary and pray for all your worries to be gone and definitely be strong. This forum is therapeutic look at the post whenever you feel lost. I also read the surgery information they give it helps a whole lot. God bless and your baby will be so proud of you for making this journey. Thankyou lovely! It is a bit daunting isn't it?Thankyou for your prayers, they're much appreciated Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deactivatedfatgal 377 Posted May 12, 2017 18 hours ago, bilbisgfy said: I am having mine done on May 25th, same day as my sister! So we are going alone. Not worried, as you can ask for help, if needed. Sent from my SM-G935T using BariatricPal mobile app I think that's AMAZING! to have someone who can go through this process with you 1 bilbisgfy reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deactivatedfatgal 377 Posted May 12, 2017 On 5/10/2017 at 3:53 PM, minnieme80 said: I'm scheduled for VSG on May 24th. I have childcare sorted for my 7 year old daughter now which is a huge relief..BUT I am going to be completely on my own and I'm so scared Where do you live? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minnieme80 11 Posted May 12, 2017 Where do you live?Near London, UK Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deactivatedfatgal 377 Posted May 12, 2017 4 minutes ago, minnieme80 said: Near London, UK I think you should find a support group because you will need some sort of support. Get plenty of rest Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bilbisgfy 36 Posted May 12, 2017 I think that's AMAZING! to have someone who can go through this process with you [emoji4]TY! Its more preventative measures than just to be skinny for us. Our maternal grandmother passed away at 45, then our mom had hypertension and weight induced type II diabetes when she passed away at 62.So, we if are literally going to be around for our (future) grandkids and even be able to play with my little ones now - we both have to do something to assist us with being healthy - NOW!Sent from my SM-G935T using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites