charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 Hello I am 27 and one yr post op. I am 5'4 and was 243 and now 168. I have mixed feeling because I am so happy I am not 243 anymore, but now I wish I was less than 160. Do any of you feel the same?Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app 7 SampTheChamp, seansqueen, Lariska and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kdn76 33 Posted May 2, 2017 Did you just stop losing at 168? My hw was 243 and I am 165 now at 8 1/2 months. It has taken me 3 months to lose 7 lbs, I would like to get to 150 if possible. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigViffer 3,544 Posted May 2, 2017 I would say that the majority of us would like to be just a little bit lighter than we are now. I am having to balance a weightlifting diet with a weightloss/maintain diet and sometimes they are at odds with each other. More often than not I need to tell myself to eat something if I want to be able to perform the next day. But then I don't want to eat too much because of the fear of weight regain. I'd like to get back down to 200, but 220 is the weight that I am able to lift more. It's a vicious cycle. 1 linah reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 Did you just stop losing at 168? My hw was 243 and I am 165 now at 8 1/2 months. It has taken me 3 months to lose 7 lbs, I would like to get to 150 if possible. Same with me. It took me a long time to get out of the 180's and I got to 168. I eat good, but I am going to change me eating up a bit and increase working out so I can build muscle to burn more fat. My goal is 140Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 I would say that the majority of us would like to be just a little bit lighter than we are now. I am having to balance a weightlifting diet with a weightloss/maintain diet and sometimes they are at odds with each other. More often than not I need to tell myself to eat something if I want to be able to perform the next day. But then I don't want to eat too much because of the fear of weight regain. I'd like to get back down to 200, but 220 is the weight that I am able to lift more. It's a vicious cycle.In your photo you seen very fit. I do need to stick to the gym. I do feel once I tone my body will loom awesome. I do see that it is a very big mental thing and maybe working out will help.Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app 1 linah reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CocoNina 210 Posted May 2, 2017 You look amazing. I'm at 165 lbs & don't look as fit as you. I don't see why you can't weight less if you wanted to. My healthy BMI is 145 lbs but I'm sure when I get to it, I'll want to be smaller too. The bright side is, we still lost a lot of weight.Height: 5'0"Weight for WLS consultation: 216 lbs.Surgery date: 2/13/17Goal: -71 lbs for healthy BMI (about 145 lbs).Current weight: 165.6 lbsMy profile picture is not me. It's my "FITspiration" body. 2 charboyd and ckfaith reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katriena 70 Posted May 2, 2017 I was told this isn't the operation for a model's body; it's an operation to get us close to a normal weight. I'm curious where I will end up.RNY 14 April 2017SW: 295 lb / 134 kgGW: 187 lb / 85 kg (I'll see when I get there) 3 charboyd, lornasaurusleeve and ckfaith reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 I agree with the both of ladies! I am starting to think I need to start working on my mental part. Overall I came so far and a lot of the time I forget that. I honestly feel by not doing support early on kinda made me lose focus!Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app 3 lornasaurusleeve, linah and ckfaith reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Berry78 4,261 Posted May 2, 2017 If your body stopped at that weight, personally I would try to come to terms with keeping it. Because: Additional weight loss will increase the loose skin, causing other problems. If you go lower, your body may set up a struggle.. attempting to regain. And if it wins, it might overshoot the mark, making you heavier than you are now. You are beautiful! Be happy! Fall into a comfortable life routine and just enjoy it! If it is easy to maintain 170lbs, or a pain in the butt to maintain 150lbs, which seems like a better idea for YOU? (I know which I would choose ). 1 charboyd reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OutsideMatchInside 10,166 Posted May 2, 2017 (edited) 15 hours ago, charboyd said: Hello I am 27 and one yr post op. I am 5'4 and was 243 and now 168. I have mixed feeling because I am so happy I am not 243 anymore, but now I wish I was less than 160. Do any of you feel the same? Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app Well, you are only one year. You can easily keep losing in year 2. I have continued to lose without really trying that much. Just eating healthy the weight is still coming off, just slowly which is fine by me, I'm sick of buying clothes. In your second year you will probably easily lose those other pounds as long as you keep your eating on track. I would like to weigh less, but I am happy with my physical size. I'm still going to strive for losing another 20 pounds because I am way too close to 200 for my tastes. Edited May 2, 2017 by OutsideMatchInside 3 linah, ckfaith and charboyd reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 Well, you are only one year. You can easily keep losing in year 2. I have continued to lose without really trying that much. Just eating healthy the weight is still coming off, just slowly which is fine by me, I'm sick of buying clothes. In your second year you will probably easily lose those other pounds as long as you keep your eating on track. I would like to weigh less, but I am happy with my physical size. I'm still going to strive for losing another 20 pounds because I am way too close to 200 for my tastes.I needed to hear this! Thank you!Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShilohD 70 Posted May 2, 2017 You look FRICKIN AWESOME, woman! I was sleeved this past March, and my top weight was 90 lbs MORE than yours. My long-term goal is 170. I hope I can look as good as you do.Sent from my SM-G955U using BariatricPal mobile app 1 charboyd reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
charboyd 11 Posted May 2, 2017 You look FRICKIN AWESOME, woman! I was sleeved this past March, and my top weight was 90 lbs MORE than yours. My long-term goal is 170. I hope I can look as good as you do.Sent from my SM-G955U using BariatricPal mobile appAwe! Thank you! Also I'm happy you get to start your journey!!!Sent from my SM-J327P using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lornasaurusleeve 91 Posted May 3, 2017 You look amazing. Appreciate everyday for what it is and don't get so obsessed with numbers that you aren't enjoying how fit you are now!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
londa320 4 Posted May 3, 2017 You look amazing Sent from my SM-N920P using BariatricPal mobile app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites