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I got my 1st fill a month ago. He put in a little over 1 cc in a 4 cc band. I have trouble eating. I can eat soft, mushy food fine. But if I eat solids, I get a golf ball feeling in the chest with pain after 4-5 bites. Don't even mention chicken. Everytime I eat chicken, after 2 or 3 bites I get pain and end up PBing. I feel I am too tight. I was talking with a friend who had gastric bypass and she said I was just right. I should just eat 4-5 bites 6 times and day and make sure I get enough Protein with shakes.

I thought this was a life style change and that is not the life style I want. I thought you would be able to eat 1/2 to 1 cup food total each time and you lose weight by controling volume consumed vs dieting. I have not lost weight in the last 2 weeks. Most of the mushy stuff is higher in calories and fat (potatos, noodles, ice cream ..;))

Please advise. do you think my band is too tight? Is my friend right? Are my expectations wrong? I just don't know what to do.

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HI Sunny- I remember you from the lucky sevens. Sorry nto see you are having a hard time. I think that you are too tight, not a lot too tight, but you need to be able to eat some solid Protein foods. My doc says a half cup per sitting. It takes me 20-30 minutes to eat this. I know I am fell when I get the hiccups. It sounds like a visit to your doc is needed before you get too frustrated. Best of luck!

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You are definitely too tight and need to call your doctor. Eating 5-6 bites at a time is plain silly for anyone to think that is normal and expect you to live your life that way. You should be able to eat at least 1/2 to a cup of food.

A word of caution, I know chicken is often a trouble food for me. If it is even slighly on the dry side, I can just not get it down.

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It could also be a technique problem rather than texture. Your bites should be pea-sized and chewed to a paste. Rest between bites. A meal should take a lot longer than we usually expect.

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