CalGuy64 66 Posted February 21, 2018 (edited) On February 20, 2018 at 7:30 AM, Mattymatt said: @DonRobbie I know that I don't walk in your shoes and that I don't understand the dynamic of your relationship, but your health must come before your wife's desires. If there is one thing that holds universally true it's that your body is the most important possession you'll ever own. It's taken me quite a bit of time to understand that one myself - which is what's bringing me to surgery to finally lose (and hopefully) keep the weight off. Yes, you have to take care of yourself to be able to take care of others. When I was taking classes to be a lifeguard when I was a teenager they taught us that if you drown no one gets saved. Edited February 21, 2018 by CalGuy64 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites