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Hey everybody,

So I have a little situation that I would like some ideas on..
I am 9 months out and 13 pounds away from my goal weight. I am getting married next month and thought having two months to lose that would be enough time, however, I haven't lost any weight in over a month.
I am still doing 90grams of Protein and 1200 calories of food per day and walking 10 000 steps a day. I don't have time for gym right now. I have two jobs and i am going to school.
If you were in my place, would you increase your calories or try to decrease it?? I was thinking of changing it to 800 or 1000 but research suggests that my body will go in starvation mode. I don't want to take that risk right now.

What do I do??

I went to Mexico for my surgery so I can't just call my doctor or seek advice from a nutritionist.




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definitely increase it. You've got the right idea about gaining by starvation mode. We aren't made to live a 1200 calorie diet forever. I've posted that the 1200 calorie diet is for someone who is 4'2" and 80lbs (and that is to maintain). I can probably say almost everyone here isn't that height and weight. Otherwise, you'll be right back to where you started, yo-yo dieting. You lose, you gain a lot. You lose a little, you gain a whole lot more! you have to take risk to go higher in calories, until you really understand the science of why and how it works. But here's a website that, once again, I've shared with others here about people stopping the 1200 calorie diet to eat properly for their body, height/weight/activity level. www.eatmore2weighless.com

Check it out and congratulations on your getting married!!! Marriage rocks...at least mine does! :) Many blessings to you hon!

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^ thank you! I checked and it says a person of my size and height should be consuming 1492 calories per day. I guess I have confused my body so I will try that and if that doesn't work then I will go back on the liquid diet.< br>

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