SharBear617 146 Posted February 4, 2017 If you're on pureed, refried Beans should be fine (ditch the tortilla chips though) and you may be ok with some chili, but careful if it's spicy might upset a 3 week postop tummy. Don't do alcohol that fresh postop, totally not worth the risk, way too soon. Agree with erp.....it's one afternoon, and a HUGE part of succeeding with this tool you've been given, is in learning how to disconnect from making holidays, celebrations, events, and yes, even comfort, about the food. Learn now how to restructure your focus for those things in life, and the rest will easily fall into place. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
anonmom 95 Posted February 4, 2017 I'm going to a super bowl party and I just told the host I am on an extremely restrictive diet for the next few weeks, so I'll be bringing my own Protein Water and sugar-free Jello. I'm sure there will be a cheese tray, so I'll let myself have a slice of cheese (chewed to the consistency of applesauce) as my treat. I specifically asked my surgeon if I could have a single shot of gin in a Protein Water and she said no, so I'm not going to drink any alcohol. If you really don't want anyone to know you had bariatric surgery, the easiest thing to do would be to just skip the party. You can say your stomach is feeling really delicate and that won't be a lie. The only other option is to keep moving at the party. Keep going up to the gif table and pointing something out that looks good. Ask if the person next to you had tried it and talk about how good it was. Probably no one will realize that you aren't actually eating if you keep talking about the food. Also, carry around a solo cup filled with water and say it is vodka. Follow everyone's cues as they get drunk: talk too loud, act as if it really matters who is winning the game, take lots of pee breaks, get a little obnoxious or a little weepy at some point. Sent from my Nexus 5X using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
anonmom 95 Posted February 4, 2017 *the food table Sent from my Nexus 5X using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4MRB4PHOTO 3,900 Posted February 4, 2017 Stick to the post WLS diet program. If anyone asks why you are not eating most of the foods, tell them your stomach is bothering you. If they push the issue, tell them you have explosive diarreah - that will stop them them from asking any more questions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bossportsgal 136 Posted February 4, 2017 I'm going to a super bowl party and I just told the host I am on an extremely restrictive diet for the next few weeks, so I'll be bringing my own Protein Water and sugar-free Jello. I'm sure there will be a cheese tray, so I'll let myself have a slice of cheese (chewed to the consistency of applesauce) as my treat. I specifically asked my surgeon if I could have a single shot of gin in a Protein Water and she said no, so I'm not going to drink any alcohol. If you really don't want anyone to know you had bariatric surgery, the easiest thing to do would be to just skip the party. You can say your stomach is feeling really delicate and that won't be a lie. The only other option is to keep moving at the party. Keep going up to the gif table and pointing something out that looks good. Ask if the person next to you had tried it and talk about how good it was. Probably no one will realize that you aren't actually eating if you keep talking about the food. Also, carry around a solo cup filled with water and say it is vodka. Follow everyone's cues as they get drunk: talk too loud, act as if it really matters who is winning the game, take lots of pee breaks, get a little obnoxious or a little weepy at some point. Sent from my Nexus 5X using the BariatricPal App This was great!!! Thanks so much. We are going to a restaurant/bar but not eating. So I'll just make trips to bar and buy friends drinks and get myself a water with lime and pretend. Haha. GO PATS! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AnaDmom3 66 Posted February 5, 2017 I was a week post for Christmas Eve and have a party we attend annually and I did as anonmom mentioned...I walked around with a solo cup people thought was vodka and soda when it was Water with a splash of juice and I never ate and no one even noticed! Eat what you can if it's there and just have that same plate for a long time. No one will even realize. Trust me I'm one that loves my cocktails and I haven't entertained even a sip yet. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites