Noneyo 171 Posted January 23, 2017 There is just something so peaceful about losing weight and knowing that you have a permanent tool to help you forever. Finally having control is such a new concept for me. Getting rid of clothes in my closet confidently knowing that I'm done with that life. My brain is changing and I am so positive now that I've got this. This has always been a problem for me and it's held me back in so many countless ways that I had to sit down and think about it all. The list of ways I held myself back was so long and it made me sad. There is such shame in losing and gaining your whole life and I have lost and gained MY ENTIRE LIFE! I know no one outside of us on this journey can understand why, like REALLY why, we did this. This is so mental and I'm not stupid enough to think this is just a weight thing. This is no different than a drug addiction and we have a reason (a different reason for all of us I'm sure) that we do it and our brains need to transition as well! What a beautiful day it was today as I went through my clothes and confidently tossed them for donation. I'm never going back! I'm growing as I shrink and I like it! 2 aracelicaldera and strengthin#ers reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patticake74 34 Posted January 23, 2017 This is so inspirational!Thank you for sharing Sent from my SCH-R960 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted January 23, 2017 This is so inspirational!Thank you for sharing Sent from my SCH-R960 using the BariatricPal App Awe, thank you❤ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JamieLogical 8,713 Posted January 23, 2017 I think for a lot of us, it's a hard concept to grasp. Getting rid of those old clothes instead of tucking them away somewhere until we "need" them again. It's scary, but also very liberating to truly let them go. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted January 23, 2017 I think for a lot of us, it's a hard concept to grasp. Getting rid of those old clothes instead of tucking them away somewhere until we "need" them again. It's scary, but also very liberating to truly let them go.You are so right! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AB2B 104 Posted January 23, 2017 Through your written words I can visualize this feeling.. I cannot wait to hear back from my surgeon's office! Pending insurance coverage. Thank you for sharing this. Truly motivational Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen_Bee 37 Posted January 23, 2017 Yes! Well said! I've had a 3 size range for YEARS. So strange (and liberating) to get rid of those sections for good!!! Keep up the good work! Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted January 23, 2017 Thanks girls, it makes me happy that I motivated someone❤ @@Queen_Bee, girl, I am so much the same! I think the entire country could have found something to wear in my closet???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted January 23, 2017 Through your written words I can visualize this feeling.. I cannot wait to hear back from my surgeon's office! Pending insurance coverage. Thank you for sharing this. Truly motivational Don't hesitate, do it. I promise you won't regret it. If your insurance doesn't cover it then don't stop there. You have options. Best of luck to you❤ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pvechiola 195 Posted January 24, 2017 So great to hear someone say exactly what I am thinking, I have lost before and got down pretty good but I gained it all back. I'm probably having surgery in May sometime and you wrote exactly how I feel. I've saved all my skinny clothes because I can't wait to wear them . Life is great! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted January 24, 2017 So great to hear someone say exactly what I am thinking, I have lost before and got down pretty good but I gained it all back. I'm probably having surgery in May sometime and you wrote exactly how I feel. I've saved all my skinny clothes because I can't wait to wear them . Life is great! You will wear them again girl! Save them Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LaurieQue 74 Posted March 17, 2017 There is just something so peaceful about losing weight and knowing that you have a permanent tool to help you forever. Finally having control is such a new concept for me. Getting rid of clothes in my closet confidently knowing that I'm done with that life. My brain is changing and I am so positive now that I've got this. This has always been a problem for me and it's held me back in so many countless ways that I had to sit down and think about it all. The list of ways I held myself back was so long and it made me sad. There is such shame in losing and gaining your whole life and I have lost and gained MY ENTIRE LIFE! I know no one outside of us on this journey can understand why, like REALLY why, we did this. This is so mental and I'm not stupid enough to think this is just a weight thing. This is no different than a drug addiction and we have a reason (a different reason for all of us I'm sure) that we do it and our brains need to transition as well! What a beautiful day it was today as I went through my clothes and confidently tossed them for donation. I'm never going back! I'm growing as I shrink and I like it! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jasminelums 50 Posted March 18, 2017 Inspirational words. I was watching a video on you tube about our brains/minds doing what we tell them to do, consciously or subconsciously.If we tell ourselves we are not going back to where we came from then we won't. What power that is! 1 Noneyo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noneyo 171 Posted March 18, 2017 Inspirational words. I was watching a video on you tube about our brains/minds doing what we tell them to do, consciously or subconsciously.If we tell ourselves we are not going back to where we came from then we won't. What power that is!Agree 100%! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites