Question: dating - do you tell date right away on surgery?

[veryblessed 151]

Lol. Good luck to you. Just give it time, will find someone.

[larry971 279]

Lol...not sure I would wish me on anyone...lol

[Lema 236]

I am not ashamed of what I have done but I don't wear it on my sleeve either. You eating healthy should be enough of an answer to them in the beginning and later on, when you have known them enough, you can tell them.
If you treat this procedure as awkward and something to be judged for, people will judge you but if you take it as just another fact of life, they will do the same.
I wouldn't hide it from anyone unless I had good reason to but I wouldn't tell them in the beginning and scare them off with it.
In the beginning, tell them you are on a diet. When you know that they are going to be a part of your life for longer than a couple of months, share your experience. Tell them all they need to know.

[larry971 279]

I am not ashamed of what I have done but I don't wear it on my sleeve either. You eating healthy should be enough of an answer to them in the beginning and later on, when you have known them enough, you can tell them.
If you treat this procedure as awkward and something to be judged for, people will judge you but if you take it as just another fact of life, they will do the same.
I wouldn't hide it from anyone unless I had good reason to but I wouldn't tell them in the beginning and scare them off with it.
In the beginning, tell them you are on a diet. When you know that they are going to be a part of your life for longer than a couple of months, share your experience. Tell them all they need to know.

Yeah I agree, i nevee hesitate to admit that. Not as embarrassed as i was when I was huge, but still im no stud muffin. .so the small things could make a difference for me.