newbirth1230 23 Posted December 27, 2016 Can anyone tell me why prior to surgery I was so adamant on trying to get approved for surgery. Now that my surgery is less than 4 days away.. I am so nervous I'm questioning everything now. It does not help either when you have people in your ear telling you, you need to think about what you're doing, or telling you NOT to do it!!! All these emotions..these negative people around me. How do i retrain my thoughts? Tell the negative Nancy's to stop....???? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks everyone. Sent from my SM-G935T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gigijean 38 Posted December 27, 2016 Your going through the same every one of us that has had surgery went through, it's all normal to feel as you do I even felt like jumping off the bed as they were giving me my general anaesthetic lol I'm so glad I didn't it's the best thing I've ever done , and you'll feel the same as time goes by Your going to feel wonderful as the weight drops off Hang in there good luck xo Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
newbirth1230 23 Posted December 27, 2016 Thank you gigijean Sent from my SM-G935T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladygg1967 171 Posted December 27, 2016 Tell them to STFU, STHD, & MIND THEIR OWN D@#$ BUSINESS! Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
newbirth1230 23 Posted December 27, 2016 Tell them to STFU, STHD, & MIND THEIR OWN D@#$ BUSINESS! Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App I concur!!!! Sent from my SM-G935T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladygg1967 171 Posted December 27, 2016 That's been my motto since I decided to take the plunge and get a healthier me! Not dealing with Negative Nancy's or Negative Norman's.......they're just haters of the worst kind. I've seen and heard the reactions from various family members regarding other members having the surgery and I'm not built for jail-which is where I'd end up after beating the brakes off of one of them for not minding their own business (although I could make a very convincing case for a 302 placement! Lol). Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scootysmama 12 Posted December 28, 2016 don't bail on me surgery twin! @@newbirth1230 we are in this together! 34 yr old wife and mom of the best 6yr old ever???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SleevedinSI 58 Posted December 28, 2016 Remember the reasons you gave yourself for fighting for the right to have the surgery. Embrace the healthy you. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SleevedinSI 58 Posted December 28, 2016 FYI all my skinny friends said go for it. All my overweight friends objected. Look at where the negative Nancy's are and what their agenda might be. Probably not all about you. Just sayin... Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scootysmama 12 Posted January 3, 2017 @@newbirth1230 how's it going? 34 yr old wife and mom of the best 6yr old ever???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites