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I definitely thought sex drive would change after surgery and once I started losing weight but it's only gotten worse. HELPPPP what do I do. I don't want my husband to feel like I don't want him anymore

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Are you on the pill? My sex drive was nil while overloaded on estrogen and while pregnant.

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I definitely thought sex drive would change after surgery and once I started losing weight but it's only gotten worse. HELPPPP what do I do. I don't want my husband to feel like I don't want him anymore

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Following... I really don't have any advise but my sex drive isn't where I would like it to be. I'm pre-op so I'm very interested in this subject.

How long post-op Kblanc? What do think made it worst?

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I'm 2 months post op and I'm always to tired to be honest and I just don't get "horny" anymore

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How far out are you? I'm on day 11, and most of the time, sex is the LAST thing on my mind. I did have one day, though, where I was feeling pretty randy, but my body would NOT have cooperated. Before surgery, I wanted it all the time...like a teenage boy. Lol. I'm sure it will come back in time.

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I'm 2 1/2 months out and I was the same way before i wanted it all the time but not its like bleh I don't wanna

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Did you have the sleeve if so give it time your sex drive will come back give it a couple of months it be back trust me on that because it happened to me and I got mine back it took about five months for it then that all she wrote

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Did you have the sleeve if so give it time your sex drive will come back give it a couple of months it be back trust me on that because it happened to me and I got mine back it took about five months for it then that all she wrote

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No bypass but thanks for the info

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