I'm freaking starving.

[goldenbarbie 329]

Hahahha thanks for your heart felt paragraphs

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[LipstickLady 25,682]

No threats over here baby just a few words of advice

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It sounded very much like a threat and believe me, I'm NOT your baby.

But advice? Ok, I'll bite. Follow your advice or to what result?

[goldenbarbie 329]

Hahahahahaha

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[LipstickLady 25,682]

Hahahahahaha

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That's what I thought!

[goldenbarbie 329]

Hahahahaaaaha

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[goldenbarbie 329]

You're like 50 cut it out cause you wouldn't be so mouthy in person now would you

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[LipstickLady 25,682]

You're like 50 cut it out cause you wouldn't be so mouthy in person now would you Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App

Yes, I'm like 50. :eye roll: And yes, I'm exactly the same in person. Are you going to start calling me names and sending idle threats my way, too?

Have at it. I'm not scared of you. Snort!

[goldenbarbie 329]

Lmaoooooo your old ass better NOT be scared of anyone online, be scared in person

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[LipstickLady 25,682]

Lmaoooooo your old ass better NOT be scared of anyone online, be scared in person [emoji6]Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App

I really shouldn't play with such nonsense but you are highly amusing.

[goldenbarbie 329]

Hahahaha SO ARE YOU

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[CherCare 34]

Ok. This settles it for me. There is too much drama, rudeness and thinskinnedness (if that's a word) around here. It was very helpful before surgery. Just about every question I had about the surgery, healing, and life after surgery had already been covered. I learned so much and felt like I really knew what I was getting into. For that I thank you all. Now, I just don't feel the support. I might as well be at a family dinner where the subject of politics comes up. No fun. I have found a couple of good groups on fb. Some are private, some aren't. I've seen a few of you on those sites. I think that will work better for me. But I think it's important for all of us that we find support and accountability in the 'real' face to face world. I will be seeing a psychologist and attending the local support group. I've noticed thst people I know who have gained weight back have not done that. They have not addressed their relationship with food. I think that will be critical for me. I wish you all the best. Find what works for you, and be self aware. You know when you're BSing yourself, or looking for unwarranted justification. But that's an area of real need. If you truly have not had struggles through your journey, that's pretty amazing. Most of us have resorted to this step because of our inability to lose weight and eat reasonably by sheer determination alone. The patterns and improper relationship with food are deeply ingrained. Socongratulations on your success and thank you for the encouragement. Be well, be determined, and for goodness sake, be kind.

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Edited December 26, 2016 by CherCare

[Greensleevie 451]

I'm about 2 weeks post opp and I'm literally ready to eat. Like I can't take it anymore. Has anyone tried mashed potatoes or very soft mac & cheese in their early stages of being sleeved? I'm about to ask my surgeon what I can eat. Even if it's hummus I'll be pleased. I know it's mind over matter but I'm sick of chicken noodle Soup and applesauce. How did you guys cope with the cravings? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

The head hunger is horrible at that stage. Call your surgeon as soon as you know he will be in and ask if you can progress to soft food. I had a friend that did that and he allowed it. If so, stick with things high in Protein like refried Beans, Riccotta Bake, soft eggs etc. Mac and cheese and mashed potatoes are not ideal for a post bariatric diet. I did soft/pureed diet without mashed potato one. Once you start eating more 'real' food, the cravings and head hunger should go away.

On another note, a positive attitude is everything in order to be successful with these surgeries. I suggest you do an attitude adjustment or you will struggle. Start by losing that huge chip on your shoulder. That alone should be a few pounds.

[goldenbarbie 329]

I'm about 2 weeks post opp and I'm literally ready to eat. Like I can't take it anymore. Has anyone tried mashed potatoes or very soft mac & cheese in their early stages of being sleeved? I'm about to ask my surgeon what I can eat. Even if it's hummus I'll be pleased. I know it's mind over matter but I'm sick of chicken noodle Soup and applesauce. How did you guys cope with the cravings? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

The head hunger is horrible at that stage. Call your surgeon as soon as you know he will be in and ask if you can progress to soft food. I had a friend that did that and he allowed it. If so, stick with things high in Protein like refried Beans, Riccotta Bake, soft eggs etc. Mac and cheese and mashed potatoes are not ideal for a post bariatric diet. I did soft/pureed diet without mashed potato one. Once you start eating more 'real' food, the cravings and head hunger should go away.

On another note, a positive attitude is everything in order to be successful with these surgeries. I suggest you do an attitude adjustment or you will struggle. Start by losing that huge chip on your shoulder. That alone should be a few pounds.

Hahaha I think I'm content with the 30 pounds I've lost in less than 2 weeks for now, so the chip will stay right there

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[Greensleevie 451]

@@goldenbarbie

I am reporting you to the moderator and owner of this forum for rudeness and name calling.

Edited December 26, 2016 by Greensleevie

[goldenbarbie 329]

So you tell me about a chip on my shoulder... that's not rude? LMFAO so why are you telling me? Just do it

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Edited December 26, 2016 by goldenbarbie