_Kate_ 2,224 Posted December 13, 2016 Alcohol.. but after hitting rock bottom, I slapped myself around a bit then stopped. I wish I could have a drink every now and again but I cant. For me its better that it's never. Kate Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ag3ntCoop 14 Posted December 13, 2016 My house is REALLY clean lately. Sleeve date: 21 Nov 2016 Height: 4'10" SW:190 GW: 125 I was sleeved 11/22 and started at 183 my goal weight is 125 - we got this!!!!!! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G891A using the BariatricPal App I'm still cooking just much healthier ???? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G891A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katsjune172013 72 Posted December 13, 2016 Ever since my by pass. .I draw and color alot. Kat.???????????????????????????????????????? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OKCPirate 5,323 Posted December 13, 2016 @@SlimJill - talk to your doctor about this: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3697760/ Naltesone seems to help with compulsive behaviors. If you use it for a season to get on stable ground, when you get off of it, try to add in some positive things like sex, exercise etc. I also suggest this book: https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-First-Aid-Kit-Practical/dp/0976852659/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1481661627&sr=8-1&keywords=the+emotional+first+aid. I worked through it before my surgery, but it still works on the other side. The danger is without a positive alternative, it is easy to transfer addictions to something negative. (drugs, alcohol, gambling) I'm not suggesting the struggle is easy, but the battle is one you can win. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
busybeebug 415 Posted December 13, 2016 I go to the gym or take a walk or sit in the hot tub. I sing badly in my house very loudly. I clean. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AvaFern 3,516 Posted December 14, 2016 I replaced food with shopping. Somehow in the last 18 months or so, I've managed to buy myself an entirely new wardrobe. When I used to sit at home and eat, now I find that I go shopping. Although it does tend to serve as a stress reliever, it is also a nice reinforcement for me in that fitting into clothing in the size I wear makes all of the difficulty of the process that got me to that point worthwhile. While I imagine there were more budget-friendly ways to replace food, I suppose we all spend money on something, and for me that is what I have found to be the result. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RunningWithScissors 74 Posted December 15, 2016 (edited) Everybody's got to have a hobby, right? You're gonna wear Mrs. LittleBill out Everyone's response to this question is so positive and uplifting. Come on...someone had to replace the food with smoking, gambling or drinking. Just kidding (sort of.) I used to smoke. I quit and promptly gained 70 pounds. I just replaced one addiction with another. Getting sleeved January 17 and so hopeful that I won't find another addiction to replace this one. I get what you are going through. It's tough. When I started out, the doc said I had to quit smoking (my pipe and cigars), quit drinking (bourbon), and quit eating (food). I asked, "What's left!?!" So now I spend more time chasing Mrs. LittleBill around. Hey, at least it's exercise. Edited December 15, 2016 by RunningWithScissors Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lema 236 Posted December 18, 2016 Green tea. I used to enjoy green tea with chocolates before too so now I just have it with dry dates or raisins. It takes care of the sweet tooth as well as the Fiber intake situation.. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites