Update: spouse left 4 days after surgery.

[veryblessed 151]

Thank you both. Yep - I truly feel God has amazing things planned for me. I know now that you are right my life will be better without him & already feels like it is.

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Sweetie, I am so encouraged and happy for your 50lb weight loss but I think the biggest weight that you lost was your husband. You seem to be doing so much better without him.

Congratulations on your future endeavors.

God Bless!!!

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Thank you. I am starting to heal & time is helping. I do feel a lot better.

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[veryblessed 151]

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[ninkris@yahoo.com 5]

I so agree with the statement someone made. The biggest weight you lost was your husband. You look fabulous, be proud you're amazing

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[jacque2250 46]

Hi, VeryBlessed. How are you doing? I hope your holiday season was fun and blessed.

I stugglesd a bit with wanting things not good for me. But i made it through without too much damage.

[Candygyrl 637]

Your life is only just begun. Cheers to new beginnings!

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[CakesItUp 34]

Hi, wanted to Thank all those back after I had my sleeve surgery on 09/19/16 & 09/23/16 my husband left me. The we'll wishes really got me through some had times cause would read them when I needed a boost. I originally thought he left due to a drug issue. I thought we would work out if he got help but didn't work out that way. I found out by doing some investing that over our last 3 1/2 years of part-time nursing school -he cheated on me while in class at night after working full time, & on clinical weekends with multiple women. I really struggled after finding this out for awhile with getting Vitamins every day, enough Water, but did Protein drinks for Breakfast & still do for Protein amount. I got through things & doing so much better. I found out Friday also that I will be graduating nursing school. I work with claims dept for the hospital I had surgery at now. I hoping that after I pass my state exam I when take in few months I can get,a job on the baratric floor for surgery patients. I would love that even more then anything. I am writing this update so if anybody else loses their spouse after surgery -keep chin up because it will get better. Sleeve surgery on 09/19 was one of the best decision of my life. I filed for divorce & he signed papers last week, graduating nursing school from long part-time road, & am down around 50 pounds since surgery. I feel better then I have in such a long time -it is amazing how surgery can change your life for the better. I enjoy exercising, walking dogs & energy level is so much higher now. Plus hearing how well you look from others is huge boost to everyone. I hope nobody ever has to go through what I went through, but if anything hard happens in your life post surgery hang in there. Hang in there, keep chin up because trust me your life & overall health will get better & what a blessing in the changes. I do feel very, very blessed in my life again.

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Good riddance to him! No better time to be single. You can focus on you. Damned cheater.

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[veryblessed 151]

I so agree with the statement someone made. The biggest weight you lost was your husband. You look fabulous, be proud you're amazing

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Thankyou so much. Ninkris@yahoo.com.

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[veryblessed 151]

Hi, VeryBlessed. How are you doing? I hope your holiday season was fun and blessed.

I stugglesd a bit with wanting things not good for me. But i made it through without too much damage.

Hi jacque2250. Honestly it was hard going through divorce through holidays. Not that I want him back at all, but just being alone was hard. I didn't do too bad over holidays , but have had few Cookies here & there but been exercising more too (took kickboxing class many years ago -have bag hanging in basement & have own gloves). I had started punching bag after found out about hidden life & has helped me with exercise & stress (& honestly - picture his face on bag sometimes too). This past week was first time I did round house kicks in like 6 yrs. Feeling great physically. I was feeling a little lonely over new years eve. Went to party with one of my friends we were only singles there but had some fun laughing with everyone. I did have 1/2 a beer on new years eve but that was it. I went online dating site too -liked talking but realized got anxiety about getting asked out & meeting someone. I realized my thoughts were right & not ready yet. It is scary for me to trust again after the amount of cheating but know will take time & will when ready. Physically doing great & everything else getting better each day. Lots of good support, even counselor said doing well. I did have a lot of good times over holidays with family too. I hope you had good holidays too. Thanks so much for checking on me.

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[veryblessed 151]

Your life is only just begun. Cheers to new beginnings!

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Thanks Candygyrl. That is what I am focusing on 2017 is a new me in so many ways. Thank you May you have a great 2017 also.

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[veryblessed 151]

Hi, wanted to Thank all those back after I had my sleeve surgery on 09/19/16 & 09/23/16 my husband left me. The we'll wishes really got me through some had times cause would read them when I needed a boost. I originally thought he left due to a drug issue. I thought we would work out if he got help but didn't work out that way. I found out by doing some investing that over our last 3 1/2 years of part-time nursing school -he cheated on me while in class at night after working full time, & on clinical weekends with multiple women. I really struggled after finding this out for awhile with getting Vitamins every day, enough Water, but did Protein drinks for Breakfast & still do for Protein amount. I got through things & doing so much better. I found out Friday also that I will be graduating nursing school. I work with claims dept for the hospital I had surgery at now. I hoping that after I pass my state exam I when take in few months I can get,a job on the baratric floor for surgery patients. I would love that even more then anything. I am writing this update so if anybody else loses their spouse after surgery -keep chin up because it will get better. Sleeve surgery on 09/19 was one of the best decision of my life. I filed for divorce & he signed papers last week, graduating nursing school from long part-time road, & am down around 50 pounds since surgery. I feel better then I have in such a long time -it is amazing how surgery can change your life for the better. I enjoy exercising, walking dogs & energy level is so much higher now. Plus hearing how well you look from others is huge boost to everyone. I hope nobody ever has to go through what I went through, but if anything hard happens in your life post surgery hang in there. Hang in there, keep chin up because trust me your life & overall health will get better & what a blessing in the changes. I do feel very, very blessed in my life again.

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Good riddance to him! No better time to be single. You can focus on you. Damned cheater.

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Thanks Cakes it up.

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[veryblessed 151]

Updated pic. Feeling good. Thanks all for so much support can't thank you enough. Studying for nclex nursing state exam to take test down road now. I struggling with my once very thick hair being thinner -but feeling happier these days more in a long time. Thanks again.

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[jacque2250 46]

I hope you all have a great 2017. May we all hold on for our blessing and our beautiful new healthier lives.

[veryblessed 151]

I hope you all have a great 2017. May we all hold on for our blessing and our beautiful new healthier lives.

I 100% agree with your statement & wishes for all -thanks for message & back at you.

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[pvechiola 195]

Hi, wanted to Thank all those back after I had my sleeve surgery on 09/19/16 & 09/23/16 my husband left me. The we'll wishes really got me through some had times cause would read them when I needed a boost. I originally thought he left due to a drug issue. I thought we would work out if he got help but didn't work out that way. I found out by doing some investing that over our last 3 1/2 years of part-time nursing school -he cheated on me while in class at night after working full time, & on clinical weekends with multiple women. I really struggled after finding this out for awhile with getting Vitamins every day, enough Water, but did Protein drinks for Breakfast & still do for Protein amount. I got through things & doing so much better. I found out Friday also that I will be graduating nursing school. I work with claims dept for the hospital I had surgery at now. I hoping that after I pass my state exam I when take in few months I can get,a job on the baratric floor for surgery patients. I would love that even more then anything. I am writing this update so if anybody else loses their spouse after surgery -keep chin up because it will get better. Sleeve surgery on 09/19 was one of the best decision of my life. I filed for divorce & he signed papers last week, graduating nursing school from long part-time road, & am down around 50 pounds since surgery. I feel better then I have in such a long time -it is amazing how surgery can change your life for the better. I enjoy exercising, walking dogs & energy level is so much higher now. Plus hearing how well you look from others is huge boost to everyone. I hope nobody ever has to go through what I went through, but if anything hard happens in your life post surgery hang in there. Hang in there, keep chin up because trust me your life & overall health will get better & what a blessing in the changes. I do feel very, very blessed in my life again.

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You are so exceptionally blessed , my daughters a nurse in the intensive care cardiac unit and after being through all the surgery you would be a perfect spot to work with bariatric patients I hope I get you for my nurse. Lol you're doing great it's his loss .

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[veryblessed 151]

Hi, wanted to Thank all those back after I had my sleeve surgery on 09/19/16 & 09/23/16 my husband left me. The we'll wishes really got me through some had times cause would read them when I needed a boost. I originally thought he left due to a drug issue. I thought we would work out if he got help but didn't work out that way. I found out by doing some investing that over our last 3 1/2 years of part-time nursing school -he cheated on me while in class at night after working full time, & on clinical weekends with multiple women. I really struggled after finding this out for awhile with getting Vitamins every day, enough Water, but did Protein drinks for Breakfast & still do for Protein amount. I got through things & doing so much better. I found out Friday also that I will be graduating nursing school. I work with claims dept for the hospital I had surgery at now. I hoping that after I pass my state exam I when take in few months I can get,a job on the baratric floor for surgery patients. I would love that even more then anything. I am writing this update so if anybody else loses their spouse after surgery -keep chin up because it will get better. Sleeve surgery on 09/19 was one of the best decision of my life. I filed for divorce & he signed papers last week, graduating nursing school from long part-time road, & am down around 50 pounds since surgery. I feel better then I have in such a long time -it is amazing how surgery can change your life for the better. I enjoy exercising, walking dogs & energy level is so much higher now. Plus hearing how well you look from others is huge boost to everyone. I hope nobody ever has to go through what I went through, but if anything hard happens in your life post surgery hang in there. Hang in there, keep chin up because trust me your life & overall health will get better & what a blessing in the changes. I do feel very, very blessed in my life again.

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You are so exceptionally blessed , my daughters a nurse in the intensive care cardiac unit and after being through all the surgery you would be a perfect spot to work with bariatric patients I hope I get you for my nurse. Lol you're doing great it's his loss .

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Aawwwhh thanks so much pvechiola. Yes that is dream job for me because I can help even more being through it. Have awesome 2017 & good luck with your future surgery also.

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