Polarbearwifey 25 Posted December 4, 2016 Two more days and I will have the surgery. Finally! I want to get this done. Any suggestions?? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
engbullymom 9 Posted December 4, 2016 Do not have a "last hurrah" meal. You have already made a commitment to yourself to succeed and don't allow temptation to trump your drive! Good luck Sent from my SM-G900T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Polarbearwifey 25 Posted December 4, 2016 Thank you. I've being on liquid diet for two weeks and is hard for me cause my husband is being eating fast food in my face. So I've being having mood swings because of that. I don't think he is being as supportive as I thought he was going to be. I'm pushing myself to not throw everything thru the window. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
engbullymom 9 Posted December 4, 2016 Thank you. I've being on liquid diet for two weeks and is hard for me cause my husband is being eating fast food in my face. So I've being having mood swings because of that. I don't think he is being as supportive as I thought he was going to be. I'm pushing myself to not throw everything thru the window. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Don't do it! You are worth it. I think that's something we just have to endure. My husband, as I type this, is indulging in a huge plate of left over ham, scalloped potatoes and green bran casserole from thanksgiving. Last night he had a huge stack of pancake drenched in Syrup. It sucks. Really bad, especially since I am over here sipping on 1 Oz of chocolate protien. The one think I keep in mind as he shovels his face is that, that is how I got here and I don't want to be there anymore. HW 394 • RNY 361 11/28/16 CW 355 • GW 190 Sent from my SM-G900T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Polarbearwifey 25 Posted December 4, 2016 Oh wow!! Your progress is awesome!! I'm proud of you. My husband was eating taco bell, chipotle, pizza... I've being having mood swings so I've being arguing with him about this. I beg him to stop all that type of food for at least the first two weeks and he said yes but he didn't so I've being feeling way down but I'm pushing myself to keep going. Thank you for your advice and for sharing your story with me Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christina.Rose 287 Posted December 5, 2016 I woke up to the smell of my husband making pancakes for Breakfast. He asked me if I could have any....Really? pancakes? Did he not hear me say 2 Protein shakes and a small dinner? I stayed in my bed until Breakfast was over. Seriously I wonder how much support Im going to get at home. Good Luck! Sent from my SM-J700P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
engbullymom 9 Posted December 5, 2016 I am sorry friend. My husband and I had multiple conversations but the reality your man has to support you. Sometime men need specifics am I right? Instead of saying "I need your support" give him specifics. Ideas like: I need you support, please don't offer me food, please don't eat my favorites including x,y and z, etc. I told Daniel, my husband that the first 3 months are going to be rough, on him too. Once my mind catches up to the physical changes then things can get easier. K ♡ HW 394 • RNY 361 11/28/16 CW 355 • GW 190 ♡ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christina.Rose 287 Posted December 5, 2016 My hubby is Daniel also. Good idea on the specific support request, thanks. Sent from my SM-J700P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
engbullymom 9 Posted December 5, 2016 How funny! K ♡ HW 394 • RNY 361 11/28/16 CW 355 • GW 190 ♡ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites