Husband says he doesn't like skinny women...WTH!

[Dknal2 1,066]

Thank you. I have been in deep prayer and know that God is in control. I have made it to Plano and at the hospital. Keep me in your prayers. God has sent so many awesome people my way thru this forum and I am so grateful for each of you,

Remember God loves you. This your life. Live it as healthy as you can. A person who is not overweight has no, no idea what it's like to carry alot of weight around... Just stay in prayer. Keep loving and believing in you. I wish you well...

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[Dknal2 1,066]

Thank you. Yes, my son is wonderful . He always tries to take care of his mommy. I thank God for him and for each of you that have kept me in your thoughts. I am truly grateful .

He's an incredibly selfish man and must be afraid of loosing you. But let it go in one ear and out the other because your health is most important. And you deserve this, you deserve to feel better and good about yourself. Sounds like you have a wonderful son who loves and adores his mother. He will be of great comfort to you in Texas and know we will all be here for you. Good luck and God bless

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[Dknal2 1,066]

I'm glad my baby is a good son as well. I made it to Texas.... at the hospital now doing registration and I will update everyone when I am able to text.

So glad you have the support of your son and that he is traveling with you. Welcome to Texas and praying all goes well.

[QueenBx 63]

@@Dknal2 Sending blessings to you this morning. So glad you stayed positive through everything! Good luck!

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[Dknal2 1,066]

Thank you @@QueenBx I will let you know how it goes.

@@Dknal2 Sending blessings to you this morning. So glad you stayed positive through everything! Good luck!

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Edited December 5, 2016 by Dknal2

[Dknal2 1,066]

My son waiting with me for surgery as he is on instagram????????

[QueenBx 63]

Sounds like me!

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[Malin 470]

@@Dknal2 Hope went well for you today! We are cheering for you. Not judging your husband, but damn it sounds like he doesn't like losing control of unhealthy you. Saying stuff like that--it's all mind games. But I'd wager you're stronger than mind games-- obviously you are, you've given birth and NOW you're getting 80% of your stomach removed. That's hardcore!

But maybe he's going to see what good this is going to be for you. Here's to hoping.

Rooting for you back here in 'Bama!!!

[seeingme 91]

I'm curious if your husband is overweight? My husband is very supportive of me, but a bit worried about me being in better shape when he is not. He admits this is his own issue with insecurity, not a true fear that I will leave him for someine thin.

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[10stackzz 184]

He's insecure! Concentrate on you & your children!...Don't spend one minute dwelling in his negativity....People will drain the life out of you! LIVE YOUR LIFE HAPPILY as YOU see fit!..Soar!

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[Dr-Patient 830]

Hope all went well.

Later, too, tell insecure hubby that while this is about a better you, once you are well and healed, and smaller, there will be better sex for everybody!!! He can 'get' even further; find some "new" stuff. [just sayin'... (Pelvic Surgeon doc here :-)]

Take your time. Get well. Look forward to the new YOU--healthy, happy, foxy and fine.

Edited December 6, 2016 by Dr-Patient

[Dknal2 1,066]

Hi everyone... I'm still alive,lol. I had my sleeve done yesterday. It was a rough day 1 with the gas pain and nausea. However , today I feell a lot better.... still have some gas pain but I'm burping a lot now. . I am telling myself this is temporary and in 6 months I'm sure I will say this was a great decision.

[suzzzzz 1,005]

Hi everyone... I'm still alive,lol. I had my sleeve done yesterday. It was a rough day 1 with the gas pain and nausea. However , today I feell a lot better.... still have some gas pain but I'm burping a lot now. . I am telling myself this is temporary and in 6 months I'm sure I will say this was a great decision.

Glad all went well. And, it probably won't take 6 mths to say that, probably 6 days! It really does get better every day of the healing phase.

[10stackzz 184]

Wonderful news...Thank you for sharing your update. It really helps those of us who are trying to get where you are. Do some "Internet" window shopping while your healing....Pick out a bad dress at Neiman Marcus..and imagine yourself in it in a few months...when you reach that goal!..Buy it????Congratulations!

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[Dknal2 1,066]

I hope so . Today I fell better, I have six lap sites and they are quite small. Still walking to remove gas . But I feel better than yesterday. Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts.

Hi everyone... I'm still alive,lol. I had my sleeve done yesterday. It was a rough day 1 with the gas pain and nausea. However , today I feell a lot better.... still have some gas pain but I'm burping a lot now. . I am telling myself this is temporary and in 6 months I'm sure I will say this was a great decision.

Glad all went well. And, it probably won't take 6 mths to say that, probably 6 days! It really does get better every day of the healing phase.