tanyamann32 84 Posted December 3, 2016 Hi everyone, Lately I have been feeling depressed because my husband and I have decided to get a divorce. I believe a component is the weight loss and it's very difficult for me right now. We have been married 35 years with many years of ups and downs like other couples. I had my mini gastric bypass October 10th and he was their 100 percent but when we came home it seemed I was a burden. So along with my family problems and the mini gastric maybe I need to go some additional help and support. I am loosing weight steadily but this is such a difficult time. THANKS FOR LISTENING. Sent from my SM-P550 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmorri 1,689 Posted December 3, 2016 I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time.....reach out to your bariatric team so they can refer you to a good therapist and support group.....I believe marriage problems after weigh loss is pretty common so I'm sure you'll find many people who can relate and perhaps give you insights on things that worked for them.............but what you need to do now is get help and support so reach out to your team for a referral. Good luck to you and hang in there!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teaqueen 113 Posted December 3, 2016 Sending you a big hug. This is a rough time and it's not something that is over in one day. Focus on taking care of yourself and loving yourself. Do the little things that make you happy and Celebrate each success, no matter how small. Hugs. Sent from my SM-G920V using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
