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I had my surgery three weeks ago. Today is the first time I actually have to go to the bathroom and I've been trying for the past three hours and it has been the most painful experience of my life. I kind of experienced this twice after both of my children's births, but this time is far worse. Any advice on how to get through this?

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You haven't gone in 3 weeks??? At this point you may need an enema!! I had the same problem last week and just (very painfully) put some vaseline as far up as I could!! I also drank 10 cups of Water a day and took stool softeners 2 nights in a row. You could try all that cause it is dangerous not to go!! Sorry if this was too much info!!

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Hold the enema as long as possible even though it may feel painful. There will be a better benefit that way!!

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My take :

Yes on the enema and suppositories and Smooth Move tea .... some of us vets say it is like passing a pineapple. Ouch! In the beginning[emoji531][emoji531]

Best of luck. You may take a while. Like hours today trying to solve this....But feel better !!

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Sounds like hemorrhoids that have swollen

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I was told if you don't go for 3 days to take stool softeners.If needed take Miralax .Usually the stool softeners work the best for me.

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