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Its 2016 so online dating is just so easy to chat with many new people but I would say 2 out of every 10 guys that I chat with and exchange numbers with do we actually met up.

If he's coming back and wants to see you more just go with it for some more time and see what happens. I know for me I gradually stop talking to other guys online when I'm into someone but I wouldn't want them to tell me not to talk to anyone else so early on.

You are going through a transformation right now so try to focus on work on a new you and things should fall into place. You know you're amazing so if he doesn't see, his lose and just imagine how many more options you're going to have in six more months.

33 single female actively online dating. Pre-op

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On ‎11‎/‎16‎/‎2016 at 11:00 PM, melbell2222 said:

He wants to see me a lot. I went and saw him on his lunch break the other day. He's a good guy I will give him a chance. I just get so jealous and it sucks. What do you do when you get jealous? I deff don't want to be w a guy who is having sex with other women eww that's just gross.

I also have had some dates go bad bc I was fat... not this guy tho he knows I'll be getting smaller n stuff he don't care.

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your self esteem is in the toilet ,,, you actually think it's okay if he don't like you now since he know you will be "getting smaller" it's acceptable and that's all you deserve? you are so much more than a size....Recognize that....

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