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I am engaged and I haven't even started looking at dresses because yeah I am self conscious anyone feel like this before the surgery and I just want to live my life with my love of my life without being worrying about rolls or him looking at me you know

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I got married one month after surgery, we have been together 37 years, but I had a lot of fears about what constituted a Christian marriage, and what I grew up around in the 50's /60's was not what I could take a vow for. I had lost around 30 lbs by my wedding, my dress fit well, and just to let you know it was great!! a new promise for the future to go with a new promise of me.

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I am a month post op got engaged the week after surgery had the dress. It was too small tried it on first time today it fit tight but fit. I will have to get it taken in but it's the dress. Someone who loves you will regardless of the outside I think. I already had rolls and some hanging in my arms already. I was self conscious but it is getting better.

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I'm getting married tomorrow, surgery is on Friday :) I'm wearing a jacket over my dress so you can't see my arms. I'm a little self conscious but it's mostly from the uneven skin tone I have.

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Omg yes!! I'm getting married in April 2017! My surgery is November 16, 2016. I've looked at dresses but haven't bought any. If I order one now by next year it will be too big!! I've decided I will get mine made by a designer here in town.

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I been engaged since 2013 , but haven't really plan my wedding. I been with him for nearly seven years and if everything goes right with all my goals I had set. I would like to get married by the time am 30 which is in 2 and some change years. Best of luck to everyone on there new chapters.

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