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As a few of you may know, I posted not long ago saying I have my pre op appointment and psychological evaluation scheduled.. unfortunately I am cancelling my appointments and not going to have surgery. Thursday night I had a miscarriage. I was 7 weeks pregnant and didn't know. I think my body has been through enough for now and surgery is just not something I want to do at this point. I wish you all the best. Good luck with your journey everyone. Thanks for the good advice I received in my short time on here. Take care xx ~ True

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body been through enough surgery - not something I want to do at this point

@@Tru3

condolences on your loss

give yourself a period to mourn

mind and body need a break

take care of yourself now

mental and physical problems

WLS will be here when and if you want

good luck

caring thoughts

kathy

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So sorry for your loss. I too have had the misfortune of a miscarriage in my lifetime so I agree that sometimes a physical and mental break is a must. Hang in there, dont forget to take care of YOU!!

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body been through enough - surgery is not something to do at this point.

@@Tru3

i see you are still on the board - November 3rd

how are you feeling?

can't relate to the sadness you must be feeling about your miscarriage

but i'm sorry to hear about your situation

have you decided to change your mind about WLS

are you thinking of having surgery

whatever you do, is the right answer for you

wishing you the best

take care bud

kathy

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Thanks for your reply.. Mentally I'm doing better... cancelled all of my appointments and haven't really decided what I'm going to do yet. It's been a rough week.. although I need surgery, it's just not something I can put my body through right now.

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haven't really decided what I'm going to do yet

@@Tru3

you are/have been going through hard times

miscarriage

take a rest - grieve

no hurry for immediate decision

you've waited X amount of years for WLS

you can wait a little longer

huggggs :unsure:

good luck

kathy

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