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Hi guys,I had surgery on 29 og august, 2016,it's about to b 2 months ,it's have spoken to various patients that had bariatric surgery and have told me the same,it's don't have sex drive,he touch no desire,the intimate desire is off,spoke to tendee of my surgeon he tells me he hasn't heard of this ,it's he bugging,please help

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It wasn't something I experienced but it makes sense with all the changes you are going through. Your body is adjusting to it's new state, your hormones are likely out of whack and you're brain is adjusting to your new habits. Give yourself some slack and don't stress it! People go through dry spells all the time and there is (usually) nothing wrong with that. If you truly feel that there is something wrong and it continues, don't hesitate to talk to your dr, therapist or seek someone out who does sexual/intimacy counseling. :)

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Thanks GA ,but my fiancee nor my daughters understand me ,I don't desire my partner at all,I dislike my family ,it's terrible to felt like your numb and evil

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This sounds a little deeper than lack of sex drive. Maybe you should go see a therapist and see if there's some depression going on?

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