MyJourney929 10 Posted October 14, 2016 So I sign up for this because I was curious and I'm new to all this, but I see now that every simple question I ask I get attacked on it. Seriously I can't ask anything without someone being sarcastic or just plain rude. So I wanna thank those who took their time to answer my questions without attacking me or being sarcastic. Thanks Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icantbelieveit 955 Posted October 14, 2016 Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hudjess 95 Posted October 14, 2016 Sorry you feel that way, I know especially with typing there is no way to take how someone is talking to you. Don't take it personal and you should stay. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
anewdayforme 26 Posted October 14, 2016 Wow. I'm sorry that you've had that experience. As a newbie myself I understand your questions and curiosity. I was happy to find a safe place to discuss with and question others who have been through the same experiences. So to the experienced members of this group, please take a minute to remember how scared, confused, and full of questions you may have felt directly after surgery. And maybe offer advice with kindness instead of sarcasm. One day we will be the experienced ones, but right now what we need most of all is kindness and support. Wishing everyone success wherever you are in your journey. ???? Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FunkyMunkyBrat 205 Posted October 14, 2016 So I sign up for this because I was curious and I'm new to all this, but I see now that every simple question I ask I get attacked on it. Seriously I can't ask anything without someone being sarcastic or just plain rude. So I wanna thank those who took their time to answer my questions without attacking me or being sarcastic. Thanks Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App I just went back through every single post you've made and honestly I haven't really seen anything too bad.. The last one or 2 post was possibly borderline.. And you seemed a little bit over sensitive.. Emotions maybe? I know I can be that way.. And it's not uncommon pre or post surgery because of little to know carbs.. It can make you get roller coaster emotions.. Just take a deep breath.. Try to ignore what you don't like and continue appreciate all the help you did and will get Munky Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kimberb 323 Posted October 14, 2016 Wow. I'm sorry that you've had that experience. As a newbie myself I understand your questions and curiosity. I was happy to find a safe place to discuss with and question others who have been through the same experiences. So to the experienced members of this group, please take a minute to remember how scared, confused, and full of questions you may have felt directly after surgery. And maybe offer advice with kindness instead of sarcasm. One day we will be the experienced ones, but right now what we need most of all is kindness and support. Wishing everyone success wherever you are in your journey. ???? Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App Good advice. I also have had a little harsh response to one of my posts. Please don't let a few hurtful responses turn you off to this. There is an extremely amount of experience and tips here. I have gained so much info. I believe that the people who are the furthest out from surgery tend to forget how they felt when they were starting out. Don't engage with negative comments. That's the best way to handle it. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
