Friend found out

[Djmohr 6,965]

I dont know but if she is truly a friend blocking her and ignoring her questions might just pose a bigger problem.

Having this surgery can cause confusing emotions about sharing how. Most people knew i had been working on my weight but I found that telling people makes it harder. I was actually treated differently by very close friends in the beginning and they knew. They are both morbidly obese and honestly I think they were just uncomfortable around me.

Now everything is fine and we go out all the time together. It has all worked out.

You just need to decide how good a friend this person is and if you are comfortable you might just explain that you really wanted to be private about this and she should keep it to herself.