higher 966 Posted September 29, 2016 This thread is terrifying and making me so grateful I live in an apartment building in a big city. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Montana Gal 448 Posted September 29, 2016 I agree with @@Havasumoma, being sweet is the opposite of the reaction they want from you. When you get home and she comes outside to try and taunt you just give her the biggest smile you can and a really enthusiastic wave and show her the beautiful person you are. This will really p*** her off! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Steven1954 89 Posted October 1, 2016 Before I lost weight , some people called me fat. I proved I could lose weight however as I always said, you can't cure stupid Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmorri 1,689 Posted October 1, 2016 OMG!! Something is wrong with her! A reaction is what she wants but why not give her one that maybe she doesn't expect?.......Maybe have a full blown breakdown in your front yard?.....cry, fall on the ground, moan, cry out that you thought you were finally getting rid of the weight........ Have your husband play apart, he can come running and sit on the ground with you with your head in his lap begging you to be alright.....really give her a show! ..hahaha....and by all means video it if possible because me for one would love to be able to see her reaction! haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MaryCatherine 173 Posted October 1, 2016 I would fill the tumbler with crushed ice and crystal light so it looks like a Slurpee. Then I would get an empty Twinkies box and carry it in the house each night. Tell her you are so glad you took the easy way out because dieting was too hard. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hadenough2 13 Posted October 1, 2016 by the way, you can sue people for excessive emotional distress...record everything...find out first your states requirements..some states dont allow you to record people without their knowledge to use in court and some do....Maine only requires one person to have knowledge of a recording... audio record and or video record everything...get copies of police reports also...there should be a law against criminal threatening....??? i would talk to a lawyer...first consult is usually free. Sent from my SM-S820L using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Steven1954 89 Posted October 1, 2016 @Hadenough2. Not every indignity is worthy of a lawsuit. Sometimes ignoring her like she was invisible is the best solution. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BayougirlMrsS 3,935 Posted October 3, 2016 @@LPNAshley have you tried just telling her to F*ck off.... that normally works for me Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p.j. 0 Posted October 14, 2016 What a kook Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daisy Day 91 Posted October 16, 2016 Get creative! Stock up on Halloween masks and have friends come over to do the occasional random silent skit in the front yard, it will make your neighbors scratch their heads. There is a band you can find on Apple tunes called South Kitsap Infidels and the have a metal tune called "Hit my neighbor with a Stick" and I have found the entire album wonderful for pissing off my neighbors while I clean my house with my music cranked, when the cops come (they will be called) I just let them know that I have a hearing disability and that I was not aware it was so loud. I enjoy talking to my grandma about all of her various ailments loudly from my front porch. The point is to behave that you are oblivious to their rudeness, and that you are oblivious to your ability to annoy them. I even went as far as to put up a Canadian flag ( my family is Canadian, I live in the US) this made my neighbor spit fire, she wanted to literally start a fight because I am an immigrate in her eyes so I offered her some delicious maple Cookies along with the other neighbors who had gathered to watch the confrontation. When she asks about my weight loss I told her that I started a new multi marketing pyramid scheme that I would love to tell her about. I always smile and give her sideways answers. She is now looking to put her house up for sale. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hadenough2 13 Posted November 8, 2016 @Hadenough2. Not every indignity is worthy of a lawsuit. Sometimes ignoring her like she was invisible is the best solution.all depends if it is an occasional occurance or if someone has gone out of their way to try to destroy you to the point of a nervous breakdown for years..i have had it happen to me and though my attorney at the time drew up paperwork for me, i didn't go there as i didn't want to cause pain on my children. I had someone torment me through the legal system for years, i had enough proof that he did so just to inflict stress and pain on me, which is why my attorney drew up the paperwork. my abuser was fortunate that i love my kids more than myself. Sent from my SM-S820L using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites