Does being fat determine your personality?

[Kat225 2]

I was overweight way before I had any control over what I put in my mouth. I was chubby as a baby and as a toddler. My weight progressed from there and it killed my self-esteem. Even times when I took off some of the weight I still felt insecure at times. Some people are predisposed to be addicts. It is extremely difficult to be a food addict because it is like tellind an alcholic to control his or her drinking. They may be successful for a period of time but it will eventually progress again. I want the band to help me control what I can't. Just because I need help controling my eating does not mean I am a victim or think like a victim. Over-eaters have an illness that needs to be treated like any other illness. We need to stop feeling bad about ourselves for losing control. I'm taking responsibility by getting help with the band.

[want2beme 2]

True that! I am going back to work here soon (after a very long maternity leave) and I am hoping to gain some more respect. Both by my weight loss and my changes in behavior.