ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted September 16, 2016 PS 3:30 this afternoon double mastectomy 17 years ago never loved outcome of reconstruction result -i had an area of excess skin on breast (not a lump, but looked like one) NSV after all these years i decided i wanted to take care of the breast problem (never hurt, looked awful, didn't feel good about my breast) surgery a couple of months ago to fix situation - developed a hematoma new surgery, new problem (2nd attempt) fingers crossed this will be my last surgery come hell or high Water 3rd time is the charm?? mentally drained kathy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Candidate 3,215 Posted September 16, 2016 Hang in there. You've already come a long way and I only see happiness and fulfilled wishes in your future. It's never too late to set out upon the right path, and the price is only a few extra steps. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thatmeanone 240 Posted September 16, 2016 Have a great surgery.... Sounds like a weird thing to say lol but I hope it goes great, you heal fast and are happy with your new boobs! Good luck! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
highfunctioningfatman 2,675 Posted September 16, 2016 And this might sound odd coming from a younger guy. I work for an oxygen and respiratory company. I've seen many older women who have had a mastectomy. Their confidence and feeling of self worth just isn't what it is for those that have had reconstruction. The few that I've known that have had reconstruction have totally changed their outlook, drive and overall happiness. One of the ladies wore v neck shirts again and she became a HUGE cougar! She showed me her girls just she was so excited. Not necessarily what I wanted to see but unfortunately I've seen more groovy grannies and gravity grandpas in the past 12 years than I ever wanted. No offense! So yes, let's hear it for the girls! I fully "support" your decision! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JamieLogical 8,713 Posted September 16, 2016 I hope all goes well and you get the results you deserve. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KristenLe 5,979 Posted September 16, 2016 @@proudgrammy Best wishes for a successful surgery and beautiful girls as the outcome!!! My friend went through reconstructive surgery as well - and also developed a few complications along the way (required additional surgeries) but in the long run - she's got great tatas!! Take care of yourself and let us know how you are doing!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaMergs 2,854 Posted September 16, 2016 Here here and cheers to you and the ladies! Good luck!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OKCPirate 5,323 Posted September 16, 2016 @@proudgrammy - I wish you the best. You are blessing to many here on this site. hair, clothes and boobs...that's how both sexes seem to initially see a woman (I'm not endorsing it, that just seems like a reality). You deserve to be happy with you appearance. Kathy, I hope you are exceptionally pleased with your results. I have two female friends who were were reconstructed, and they are thrilled and feel like their old selves again. I hope it goes great for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
reree6898 1,164 Posted September 16, 2016 I hope all goes well for you and your happy with the outcome. Your such an awesome encourager for everyone on this site, you are appreciated! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
borg/assimilated 576 Posted September 16, 2016 @@proudgrammy, Well you are cute as a button no matter the outcome. I am hoping for the best for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OzRoo 1,492 Posted September 16, 2016 @@proudgrammy 3rd time LUCKY, as the saying goes. May everything go well for you with fantastic results! You deserve it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valentina 2,642 Posted September 17, 2016 From 'Granny" to "Grammy" and from one "Upstater" to another-----you come from stern stock if you can survive in Upstate NY! You got this, Friend. Now go and ROCK IT!!!!!! Woot! Woot ! for your BODACIOUS TAATAAS!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djmohr 6,965 Posted September 17, 2016 @@proudgrammy I hope all goes well for you, you have been through enough! Keep us posted! And take care of yourself. Deb Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted September 20, 2016 oooooops, sorry double post Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted September 20, 2016 @@The Candidate @@thatmeanone @ @@KristenLe @@LisaMergs @@reree6898 @@OKCPirate@@@Valentina @ @@JamieLogical @@Djmohr you guys are allll aces thanx for your kind thoughts, good wishes kathy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites