bellabeans 74 Posted September 15, 2016 seriously how long did you wait to have sex?? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icantbelieveit 955 Posted September 15, 2016 20years the first time. You? Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
laceemouse 631 Posted September 15, 2016 My doctor says you don't have to wait at all after surgery, as long as you feel up to it you can do it. I am pre-surgery so I don't know how I will feel after surgery but I can tell you we won't wait long. There are different ways to do things that require less effort in the beginning (I have had 4 huge babies, I understand starting back slow) 20years the first time. You?Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App hahahaha, same here Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted September 15, 2016 how long did you wait to have sex?? @@bellabeans hmmmmm doc said i could have sex when i felt healthy, physically ok i'm almost 5 years PO hubby is still waiting kidding bud i was told to wait a couple of weeks doc also said no somersaults/back flips, high kicks etc for a while!!!! LOL God Grant Me Patience, Just Hurry Up About It!! good luck kathy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thatmeanone 240 Posted September 15, 2016 19 looong days.... Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
highfunctioningfatman 2,675 Posted September 15, 2016 Fooling around 2 days post op. Slow and steady 5 days. Like a teenager with raging hormones... 9 days. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Candygyrl 637 Posted September 15, 2016 post op day 4-- from the back-- on my side... hope that makes sense. Think of spooning. It was more for him than for me but at least that set him straight for awhile. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lelewatson 51 Posted September 15, 2016 Good question, I was going to ask the doctor that one. I don't think my man will wait long either. I will do good if I can wait two weeks. Sent from my VS985 4G using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lelewatson 51 Posted September 15, 2016 I say two weeks because we usually don't see each other during the week. He works afternoons and I work days. I'm off work due to a knee surgery and going on the 20th for my sleeve surgery and he has already surprised me before going to work. Sent from my VS985 4G using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShelterDog64 2,364 Posted September 15, 2016 No restriction on when from my doc, just whenever I felt up to it. So, 3 or 4 days post-op. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jess_vsv 4 Posted September 15, 2016 I waited 10 days! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dub 9,922 Posted September 15, 2016 Got an awkward boner as I was waking up in my room. Could't help it.....my surgeon had three female med students with him that had been there during my final pre-op appointments......all were attractive....one of them, though......whew......stronger than new rope. Anyway....I knew as I was waking up....all was well with the landing gear as it was deploying.....this knowledge came before I'd even been told the surgery was a success by surgeon or other staff. I waited until being discharged from hospital to give it a test run......the IV lines would have been cumbersome......... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
laceemouse 631 Posted September 16, 2016 @@Candygyrl YES, that is exactly what I was going to say, spooning. Works great and doesn't require much effort. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lelewatson 51 Posted September 16, 2016 Sent from my VS985 4G using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lelewatson 51 Posted September 16, 2016 I would say two weeks, I may make it a week Share this post Link to post Share on other sites