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cougar?..... Apparently, that's what i am now



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So.... went to the cost this weekend (Biloxi, Ms) to the IP casino (no i don't gamble). Went with my Aunt and her Mardi Gras group (just girls). So Friday night, i get dressed, cute mint green sun dress with the even cuter wedges... i must have looked "approachable"..... Ages of the guys that hit on me... 22,25,30,33,.. and one 50 year old. The night went like this...

Them: hey, can i buy you a drink?..... Me: hum, i don't know, you look a little young..........How old are you? .............. Them: 22.. etc.......... Me: Oh, im to old for you........... Them: No your not, what are you 35 (apparently i look 35, thats what i kept hearing).......... Me: No, im 48,........... them: No way..... Me: Yes way... But on a more positive note.... i drank for free allllllll night till 4am

This single life could be fun....

Also, found out... i really need a smaller bikini bottom, my old one is tooooo big. Down to 133lbs... Whoop Whoop

Darker pic is friday night and the other is saturday dinner..... that's my aunt with me

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You go, girl! My partner and I live in NOLA and go over to Biloxi all the time. It's a lot of fun!

Enjoy yourself!!

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@@bayougirlmrsc - "This single life could be fun...."

Yes it can. That is one heck of an ego stroke.

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Well, I would say you had a great night out! Congratulations on your weight loss and your Cougar Status. :D

I do find it shocking the attention one gets from the opposite sex after losing all our weight! Apparently I look great in clothes.

It can be a little scary and after being married for 29 years, I have NO idea how to handle it when it happens.

I usually sit there with my mouth dropped open not knowing what to say.

Apparently no one looked at me when i was fat. ;)

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You go, girl! My partner and I live in NOLA and go over to Biloxi all the time. It's a lot of fun!

Enjoy yourself!!

ohhhh my friend Bud and his husband are coming from fl at the end of the month... we should meet

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@@Djmohr are you getting divorced too?

Can't answer for her but lemme tell ya I'm right where you are but married (no divorce in the offing) and the ring doesn't stop the attention. [emoji15]

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so friday night.... as im cougaring on the dance floor (hehe) this cutie (pic below, total intoxicated in this pic) comes and grabs my hand and pulls me from the dance floor... (apparently my aunt told her i was getting divorced).... she proceeds to tell me that I didn't need to dance with anyone else because she was going to hook me up with her dad and I was going to be her new mom...... OK... lmao. We hung out all weekend and stayed intoxicated till the weeeee hours of the am... she was a blast.

So i went on a date with him last night... Nice guy, not really my type, but now he is "in love" with me.... lord help me.

im sad because i really liked hanging out with her... (friend)... not so much the dad.

What's a girl to do

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48? You're not old enough to be a cougar yet. How about we go with beautiful mountain lioness?
I'm 41 and my husband is 51 and we for sure aren't old yet. :)

Congrats on your loss and sounds like you had a great time in Biloxi.

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Wow you look awesome! Congrats!

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Rock on, Cougs!

Sent from my SM-N920V using the BariatricPal App

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Awesome inspiring post!

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