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I'm the Store Manager of two retail stores (clothing). I'm on my feet for 8 hours a day. I move boxes weighing approximately 40lbs, climb ladders, disassemble and re-assemble walls using hardware. Although I can delegate a lot of these tasks, I can't count on delegating everything 100% of the time.

Also, can I use FMLA for the surgery or no?

Thanks in advance for your input!

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My surgeon's instructions were not to lift anything heavier than 15 pounds for 6 weeks, so the lifting requirements alone might be a problem. I can also say that you are going to effectively be on a very low calorie diet. I'm two weeks out and just doing a little bit of walking can take a lot out of me. I'm going back to work tomorrow, but I have a desk job.

As to FMLA, this absolutely qualifies. Your surgeon's office can fill out any paperwork your employer requires.

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If you were my surgeon's patient, he would suggest 8 weeks off and require 6 weeks off as a minimum.

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I had heard you only need a week off of work but I don't know if this includes heavy lifting jobs. It probably requires several weeks off. I have a job where I work in the field traveling to people's home and in the office at my computer. I don't really do heavy lifting but a lot of driving and stressful situations. I think I am going to take two weeks off when I have the surgery.

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I have a desk job and went back to work today (tomorrow is 3 weeks post op). Physically I'm absolutely fine, but I left early due to sheer fatigue. Being on your feet all day? You're going to need more time off than I took.

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If you are lifting boxes 6-8 weeks sounds more like the norm. No less involved than a hysterectomy which my friend just had. She has a desk job and was off 8 weeks after that hysterectomy.

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I was off from work for 4 weeks and I worked at home for 3 weeks before I returned to the office. You will be drained the first few weeks after surgery. I wasn't prepared for the total lack of energy. Don't rush back to work if you don"t have to.

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I went back after two weeks, but I work a desk job. Re lifting, the surgeon advised not to lift anything more than a gallon of milk for 6 weeks. Yes, FMLA leave can be used.

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Let me tell you, I'm two weeks post, feel great! But like a dummy I went shopping. I carried the bags in and now I'm sore in my gutt. I took pain pill, went to bed and woke up fine. Wise to rest at least keep in mind your learning a new way to eat! Don't miss this time!

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My surgeon recommends taking 4 weeks off due to the restrictions on lifting 40lb boxes. I'm actually looking forward to this time off. I live very close to the beach, so I plan on soaking up some rays :-)

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