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bini120    163

bini120
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You were flagged for being inappropriate, mate. You might want to rephrase your question and go to the singles forum.

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stevencornell69    107

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How was that inappropriate? Lol. I'm not the one hitting on people. I found it detrimental to the support group to have these two ladies in there sharing such personal info. Crazy.

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VSGAnn2014    12,992

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Don't know where my topic went. But is anyone else's support group just a hook up spot? People must be overly excited about their new self lol

Yeah, the thread did take a different turn. Theads do that sometimes. ;) And no, I haven't yet heard of a WLS support group that's a hook-up spot. But I don't doubt it happens. ;)

You were flagged for being inappropriate, mate. You might want to rephrase your question and go to the singles forum.

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Who "flagged" him? And since he apparently didn't have any notice he was "flagged," chances are he wasn't.

Reporting a post doesn't necessarily mean the forum moderator found any merit in the report or complaint.

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bini120    163

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Hi @@VSGAnn2014 - I flagged the original post as it sounded unnecessarily grubby. The mods must have agreed as they took it down. The username doesn't do him any favors either. Happy to have a convo about folks using support groups to meet other people, but like adults, yes?

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bini120    163

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Hahaha my user name reflects my birth year thank you!!! Lol. Some people ... Looking for problems...

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Maybe! There is a singles forum on here you know?

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VSGAnn2014    12,992

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Hmmm ... didn't understand that the original thread had been deleted.

I didn't know the joint was getting that straight-laced.

@@Alex Brecher ?

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bini120    163

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Hmmm ... didn't understand that the original thread had been deleted.

I didn't know the joint was getting that straight-laced.

@@Alex Brecher ?

You've been around here way longer than me so will happily defer - but something didn't smell right to me.

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Alex Brecher    10,515

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I was totally cool with the topic but you just wrote a Subject and had an entirely empty post. That's the only reason it was deleted. We are all for hooking up at support groups ????

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Alex Brecher    10,515

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You were flagged for being inappropriate, mate. You might want to rephrase your question and go to the singles forum.

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FYI just because a post was flagged or reported does not mean it'll be deleted. It's reviewed and only if it doesn't follow the spirit of our terms of service, is it deleted.

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VSGAnn2014    12,992

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I was totally cool with the topic but you just wrote a Subject and had an entirely empty post. That's the only reason it was deleted. We are all for hooking up at support groups

LOL!

Thanks, @@Alex Brecher .

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