NikkiRT 265 Posted June 16, 2016 My kids are totally fine with this decision, however... My dad is a whole other story! Why at the age of 43 does it still bother me so much when one of my parents disagree with a decision of mine??? Ugh!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarnspice 150 Posted June 16, 2016 My kids are totally fine with this decision, however... My dad is a whole other story! Why at the age of 43 does it still bother me so much when one of my parents disagree with a decision of mine??? Ugh!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App I get it I think even adults sometimes are kids forever to their parents. I lost my mom @21 but I have an aunt who is very close to me like a 2nd mother and I'm not telling her I don't want to hear what she has to say it might just give me anxiety & make me nervous. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NikkiRT 265 Posted June 17, 2016 My kids are totally fine with this decision, however... My dad is a whole other story! Why at the age of 43 does it still bother me so much when one of my parents disagree with a decision of mine??? Ugh!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App I get it I think even adults sometimes are kids forever to their parents. I lost my mom @21 but I have an aunt who is very close to me like a 2nd mother and I'm not telling her I don't want to hear what she has to say it might just give me anxiety & make me nervous. Yep...same here! I am easily discouraged and it gives me anxiety so I just need to give him very limited information and remember I am doing this for me! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan1973 16 Posted June 17, 2016 I am wondering if she will see me having this surgery and think to herself - well, if Mom can do it that way, then so will I. YES, YES, YES. That's exactly what I'm thinking too. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
