Janiegirl1 11 Posted June 12, 2016 Having surgery on Wednesday and really need encouragement... Really starting to get scared. Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christinamo7 4,042 Posted June 12, 2016 your emotions are completely normal! I would go to the gallery and look at before and after pictures of people at least a year out. because you are going to be amazed at the changes in your life! the first few weeks can be a real rollercoaster. just know that that is also normal, and that it will pass. please let us know how your surgery goes! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janiegirl1 11 Posted June 13, 2016 your emotions are completely normal! I would go to the gallery and look at before and after pictures of people at least a year out. because you are going to be amazed at the changes in your life! the first few weeks can be a real rollercoaster. just know that that is also normal, and that it will pass. please let us know how your surgery goes! Thank you! Was it really painful for you? Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christinamo7 4,042 Posted June 13, 2016 no - it was not. I did have a nerve block in my abdomen and not all hospitals do this. it is a very long lasting pain relief and cut down on the narcs I needed. which is nice. but my c section and my hysterectomy were a lot more painful as far as abdominal surgeries, and this was not bad at all. the hardest part for me was the liquid diet. are you also having anything like a hernia repair? I just straight up had the VSG, no hernia. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KristenLe 5,979 Posted June 13, 2016 @@Janiegirl1 You have got this! Think about why you are having surgery and all of the things you want to do when you're healthier and thinner! Write a list of things you want to do! Hang in there! You'll be fine! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janiegirl1 11 Posted June 13, 2016 no - it was not. I did have a nerve block in my abdomen and not all hospitals do this. it is a very long lasting pain relief and cut down on the narcs I needed. which is nice. but my c section and my hysterectomy were a lot more painful as far as abdominal surgeries, and this was not bad at all. the hardest part for me was the liquid diet. are you also having anything like a hernia repair? I just straight up had the VSG, no hernia. Thank you this makes me feel better... I am just getting the sleeve no hernia repair! Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christinamo7 4,042 Posted June 13, 2016 if they offer the nerve block I would say take it. it's a pain when they do it but it is WORTH it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Inner Surfer Girl 12,015 Posted June 13, 2016 Having surgery on Wednesday and really need encouragement... Really starting to get scared. Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App I understand the uncertainty. All I can tell you that the surgery was the absolute easiest part of this whole process and the recovery was really easy compared to what I imagined. I assume that if you have gotten this far then you have chosen a skilled and experienced surgeon that you believe will do a good job. Chances are pretty darn good that you are going to be just fine. Keep us updated on how you are doing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janiegirl1 11 Posted June 13, 2016 Having surgery on Wednesday and really need encouragement... Really starting to get scared. Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App I understand the uncertainty. All I can tell you that the surgery was the absolute easiest part of this whole process and the recovery was really easy compared to what I imagined. I assume that if you have gotten this far then you have chosen a skilled and experienced surgeon that you believe will do a good job. Chances are pretty darn good that you are going to be just fine. Keep us updated on how you are doing. Thank you so much!!! This makes me feel so much better!! no - it was not. I did have a nerve block in my abdomen and not all hospitals do this. it is a very long lasting pain relief and cut down on the narcs I needed. which is nice. but my c section and my hysterectomy were a lot more painful as far as abdominal surgeries, and this was not bad at all. the hardest part for me was the liquid diet. are you also having anything like a hernia repair? I just straight up had the VSG, no hernia. Thank you this makes me feel better... I am just getting the sleeve no hernia repair! Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valentina 2,642 Posted June 13, 2016 Now is the time for you to stop, take a deep cleansing breath and rest. You've done the most difficult part---you recognized that you needed WLS and you jumped the hoops to get you to your surgery date. Meditate on all of the benefit WLS will allow you. Dream of the healthier you and all that will mean to you and yours. The emotional roller coaster, the "bumps in the road" will come later. But for now, my friend----rest. You will soon start your journey of your lifetime. --scooching over on the, "Losers' Bench". We will wait for you there. Prayers going up for you . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janiegirl1 11 Posted June 13, 2016 Now is the time for you to stop, take a deep cleansing breath and rest. You've done the most difficult part---you recognized that you needed WLS and you jumped the hoops to get you to your surgery date. Meditate on all of the benefit WLS will allow you. Dream of the healthier you and all that will mean to you and yours. The emotional roller coaster, the "bumps in the road" will come later. But for now, my friend----rest. You will soon start your journey of your lifetime. --scooching over on the, "Losers' Bench". We will wait for you there. Prayers going up for you . Thank you you made me teary eyed... Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mparkersmith 72 Posted June 13, 2016 @@Janiegirl1, Everything you are feeling is totally normal. I was terrified, but the day before my surgery, I kept going over and over why I was doing it, and a peacefulness came over me. I realized I had made up my mind, everything was set, and it was going to be okay. It was still hard to sleep, and the next morning at the hospital, I was a mess. Nerves for days! But it has been the best thing I ever did for my own health and well-being, period. And I would do it again in a heart beat. We will all be waiting for you on the other side, to give advice, encouragement, and support. You can do this!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megall9 268 Posted June 13, 2016 The best thing that I did to get through the last few days before my sleeve was to clean my house! I did everything that needed to be done, laundry, vacuuming, even washed the windows. Not only did it help pass the time, but I knew that it would make recovery easier on me as I could just rest when I got home, and not be worrying about anything that needed to be done. You are almost there! Good luck with your surgery, I can't wait to hear how it went. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sarellen5 27 Posted June 13, 2016 You got this! . Ready to start this new beginning. Look back at pictures, remember why you wanted this. I know when I feel the doubts sneaking in I think of where will I be if I continue to stay in this same unhappy place. I will be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WendyA88 20 Posted June 13, 2016 Having surgery on Wednesday and really need encouragement... Really starting to get scared. Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App I am having surgery on the 15th as well, so im right there with ya. Just focus on all the amazing things to come. For example: how absolutely stunning you will look in those new clothes. Sending best wishes, love, and support your way. You got this chica. Sent from my SM-G360T using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites