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Assault is a perfectly acceptable response to an unkind word in these forums? How childish.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

Are you taking what we say as literal?
I've found that people who make irrational statements tend to be irrational. And irrational people tend to behave irrationally as well.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

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Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.

Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..

This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.

Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.

I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Edited by AussieGirl81

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Assault is a perfectly acceptable response to an unkind word in these forums? How childish.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

Are you taking what we say as literal?
I've found that people who make irrational statements tend to be irrational. And irrational people tend to behave irrationally as well.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

You are living proof. ;)

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.

Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..

This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.

Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.

I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Shhhh.... It's ok. Ignore the irrational. ;)

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(A) Some idiot at work felt the need to mention that i was "chubby"

(B) I could get on a flight and come down there and help you punch him in the balls.

(A) Tell him that you told your parents what he said and that they are cross with him: They didn't want you to know until you were older.

(B) Nothing wrong with a visit, but punching him in the balls probably needs no more than one hand.

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G'day @@Fredbear

"When all is said and done... Shhhhhhhh..."

You're being waaaay too serious mate...

Did you skip your nap this afternoon or something?

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Assault is a perfectly acceptable response to an unkind word in these forums? How childish.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

Are you taking what we say as literal?
I've found that people who make irrational statements tend to be irrational. And irrational people tend to behave irrationally as well.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

You are living proof. ;)

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.

Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..

This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.

Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.

I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Shhhh.... It's ok. Ignore the irrational. ;)
Lipsticklady!!! I dont know what to do anymore!!!!!

I lose weight... but i get called fat..

I want to mentally punch someone.. but that makes me abusive..

I complain.. therefore i am irrational

And now you are asking me to ignore the irrationals?? What does that make me if i do??? Lol

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It makes you one of us....

Come to the dark side @

You'll be safe with your own kind...

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G'day @@Fredbear

"When all is said and done... Shhhhhhhh..."

You're being waaaay too serious mate...

Did you skip your nap this afternoon or something?

Quitting caffeine.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

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It makes you one of us....

Come to the dark side @

You'll be safe with your own kind...

Oh noooooo...i have been promoted to the childish abusive irrational side... i better get some help!!

I mean... heaven forbid if i choose a side that has thoughts.. feelings and experience and support. .. my mother told me to stay away from people like that hahaha lol

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G'day @@Fredbear

"When all is said and done... Shhhhhhhh..."

You're being waaaay too serious mate...

Did you skip your nap this afternoon or something?

Quitting caffeine.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

Perhaps you need to go take a poo. That always eases my mood.

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G'day @@Fredbear

"When all is said and done... Shhhhhhhh..."

You're being waaaay too serious mate...

Did you skip your nap this afternoon or something?

Quitting caffeine.

"When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

Perhaps you need to go take a poo. That always eases my mood.
Yeah... that makes me feel better.. especially when I'm full of it

Edited by AussieGirl81

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@

"feelings, experience and support"??

You're such a girl sometimes!!!

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Im about 98% sure i am a girl..... my saggy boobs are proof!!! Hahaha

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