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My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life.

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Time to be selfish and attend to your needs. It's like putting the oxygen mask on yourself first. You can be the best mom when your the healthiest mom. Taking a small reprieve to get stronger and healthier in the long run is "big picture smart"-in my opinion. :-)

Best of luck!

~Daniel

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My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life.

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Best wishes to you on this journey❤️. What is your daughter afraid of? If I may ask

My mom doesn't want me to have it either. She feels as if I would fall into depression if I lose too fast and have too much hanging skin. I'm doing this for me and you should hold your head up high and be proud of the decision you made????

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She's feels I can lose it on my own. I'm the mother of 6 grown children. But she will be there for my surgery. She worries about me. But I'm looking forward to my new life. When is your date for surgery?

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My daughter is all for it...she knows how I have struggled with my weight and the severe pain in knees and legs!! Plus I want to be healthy and do things w my two g-sons! Time to be selfish!!

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That sounds just like my mom lol. It's not set yet I meet with the surgeon on 5/26 fingers crossed that I'm cleared.

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She's feels I can lose it on my own. I'm the mother of 6 grown children. But she will be there for my surgery. She worries about me. But I'm looking forward to my new life. When is your date for surgery?

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Is your daughter overweight? To me it seems like this is selfishness or jealousy of her feeling this way. I understand worrying about someone but staying the way you are is not any safer either. This is your chance, if you don't take it, you will not know!

I am 5 days post op, I was terrified but on my road to recovery and new me!

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Time to be selfish and attend to your needs. It's like putting the oxygen mask on yourself first. You can be the best mom when your the healthiest mom. Taking a small reprieve to get stronger and healthier in the long run is "big picture smart"-in my opinion. :-)

Best of luck!

~Daniel

Well said!!!!!

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My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life.

We are having a days apart I am on the 26th :)

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May 26th is the big day... My feelings are all over the place

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