deanieluv6 70 Posted May 18, 2016 My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel2015 262 Posted May 18, 2016 Time to be selfish and attend to your needs. It's like putting the oxygen mask on yourself first. You can be the best mom when your the healthiest mom. Taking a small reprieve to get stronger and healthier in the long run is "big picture smart"-in my opinion. :-) Best of luck! ~Daniel Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deanieluv6 70 Posted May 18, 2016 Thank you. I'm a mother of 6 grown children , I feel it's time to take care of me. Have you had surgery? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel2015 262 Posted May 18, 2016 Welcome! Yes, I had the bypass surgery 8/4/15. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bsweetness 25 Posted May 18, 2016 My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Best wishes to you on this journey❤️. What is your daughter afraid of? If I may ask My mom doesn't want me to have it either. She feels as if I would fall into depression if I lose too fast and have too much hanging skin. I'm doing this for me and you should hold your head up high and be proud of the decision you made???? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Instagram: @bsweetness snapchat: @b-sweetness Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deanieluv6 70 Posted May 19, 2016 She's feels I can lose it on my own. I'm the mother of 6 grown children. But she will be there for my surgery. She worries about me. But I'm looking forward to my new life. When is your date for surgery? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krazy kat 107 Posted May 19, 2016 My daughter is all for it...she knows how I have struggled with my weight and the severe pain in knees and legs!! Plus I want to be healthy and do things w my two g-sons! Time to be selfish!! Sent from my SM-G730V using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bsweetness 25 Posted May 19, 2016 That sounds just like my mom lol. It's not set yet I meet with the surgeon on 5/26 fingers crossed that I'm cleared. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Instagram: @bsweetness snapchat: @b-sweetness Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UsernameTaken 283 Posted May 19, 2016 She's feels I can lose it on my own. I'm the mother of 6 grown children. But she will be there for my surgery. She worries about me. But I'm looking forward to my new life. When is your date for surgery? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Is your daughter overweight? To me it seems like this is selfishness or jealousy of her feeling this way. I understand worrying about someone but staying the way you are is not any safer either. This is your chance, if you don't take it, you will not know!I am 5 days post op, I was terrified but on my road to recovery and new me! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deanieluv6 70 Posted May 19, 2016 I have 6 grown kids and 4 of my children are for it. My surgery is May 25. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deanieluv6 70 Posted May 19, 2016 Maybe a little, but she goes to the ymca and works out. She doesn't want me to hurt. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using the BariatricPal App Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KristenLe 5,979 Posted May 19, 2016 I'm sure it's out of fear more than anything. I would be petrified if my Mom was having major surgery. I'm a major worry wart when it comes to my loved ones! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moni5855 76 Posted May 19, 2016 Time to be selfish and attend to your needs. It's like putting the oxygen mask on yourself first. You can be the best mom when your the healthiest mom. Taking a small reprieve to get stronger and healthier in the long run is "big picture smart"-in my opinion. :-) Best of luck! ~Daniel Well said!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moni5855 76 Posted May 19, 2016 (edited) My surgery is May 25 , 2016. My daughter doesn't want me to have this surgery done. And I've almost changed my mind. Thing I can do this on my own , which I have failed . One of my son's said , 'you've always wanted this, it's a fresh start , do it for you, don't listen to anyone else'. So I'm getting my gastric bypass, and I'm looking forward to my new life. We are having a days apart I am on the 26th Edited May 19, 2016 by moni5855 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moni5855 76 Posted May 19, 2016 May 26th is the big day... My feelings are all over the place Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
