Sleeved Tuesday May 10th

kristiw14 · May 14, 2016

I was sleeved Tuesday and boy I wasn't expecting the pain and heartburn to be so bad. That does get better everyday. I was released 2 days after surgery. I'm having a problem with finding things to drink or eat because I have no taste for anything. Any suggestions?

Also..... I have been divorced for about a year and now seeing this guy. He don't understand why I won't come stay with him during my healing instead of at home. My parents And child have been very supportive and I need them. I'm afraid if I go there they won't come see me etc.... He hasn't been the most helpful person in past it always do do for them. So yeah I'm scared of getting there and getting stuck. They didn't come see me at hospital due to work or they didn't feel good. Am i over thinking this? He is mad and I can't make him understand right now.

Thank you all.

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KristenLe · May 14, 2016

@@kristiw14 You shouldn't have to make him understand. He sounds as though he's being self centered and childish. If you're more comfortable at home - stay home! I know I wouldn't want to be anywhere but home while I heal (especially when you have pain and discomfort). Let him be mad - he should be more concerned about your feelings and health than where you stay and his feelings about it. Stay strong - if he doesn't respect your decisions than he doesn't deserve you!